The Biggest Wedding Law Shake-Up in 200 Years: The Government is Finally Catching Up! 💍✨
Photo taken by Katie Flanagan, Wedding Celebrant & Editor at Celebrant Led, pre-ceremony at Eaves Hall, Lancashire - July 2026
By Katie, Editor in Chief at Celebrant Led
Published: 16th July 2026
It is officially happening! Today, the UK Government dropped a massive announcement that has the entire wedding industry buzzing: they have officially launched a 10-week public consultation to completely overhaul the archaic marriage laws in England and Wales.
The headline news? The proposals shift the focus from bricks and mortar (licensed buildings) to people and promises (the officiants themselves)! And yes, that means the government is actively consulting on licensing independent celebrants to conduct legally binding marriages.
Let’s be honest: the government is finally catching up to what the people on the floor in weddings — the wedding coordinators, planners, photographers, videographers, and musicians already all know. Celebrant-led weddings are way better for the couple!
Behind the Scenes at Celebrant Led
This announcement did not just happen overnight. For months, the Ministry of Justice (MoJ) has been hard at work carefully collating the exact questions to ask within this consultation.
For me, this moment is the culmination of a very long journey. Back when I worked as a Head of Weddings at a busy venue and was their in-house celebrant, I saw continually how the traditional registrar-led ceremony failed to fit so many couples; it felt rigid, cold, disconnected, and transactional. Driven by a desire to see couples get the weddings they truly deserved — and the time, location and content that fit them, I began advocating for change way back then, even lobbying my local MP, Sir Julian Smith to attend a breakfast meeting, to discuss the flaws in current wedding laws and push for reform.
Since those early days, I have dedicated myself to the celebrancy world full-time, both on the ground as a celebrant and as the Editor of Celebrant Led.
To now come full circle, where I was invited to join the discussions with the MoJ team to help shape the questions asked in this official consultation. Being part of those discussions representing wedding celebrants, and lobbying for genuine change and choices for our wedding planning couples, is something I am so proud to do for our wonderful community.
Why This is a Total Game-Changer for Couples
The proposed changes are all about giving engaged couples more choice over how and where they get married. It will give you the complete freedom to personalise your wedding ceremony and take care of the legal side at the very same time!
Currently, couples who choose a beautiful, bespoke celebrant ceremony have to take care of the legal marriage on a different day at the register office. That means extra time, extra planning, and double the costs.
But these proposed changes will set a brand-new course:
Freedom of Location: Say your legal "I dos" in a wedding venue, or anywhere else — on a clifftop, in a deep forest, on a canal boat, or right in your own back garden.
True Inclusion: Interfaith couples will finally be able to combine their heritages and spirituality in one single, legally recognised ceremony.
Independent Celebrants are Key: It is absolutely crucial that the final reforms include independent celebrants and are not just limited to humanist celebrants. Many couples do not want to get married in a place of worship, but they do want elements of religion, faith, or spirituality included in their day. A secular humanist wedding cannot offer this—just like a restrictive registrar-led ceremony, they are strictly secular with no mention of religious content allowed. Only independent celebrants can offer couples the unrestricted freedom to blend secular, spiritual, and religious elements exactly how they want!
"I’m Marrying in 2026 or 2027—What Does This Mean For Me?"
If you are planning your wedding right now for the next year or two, the short answer is: probably nothing just yet.
The government's public consultation opens today 16th July 2026 and closes on 24th September 2026. After that, the bill will be presented to Parliament. It might go back and forth a bit before it officially becomes law—but this is incredible progress!
The Game Plan for Now: Don't pause your wedding plans! Keep booking your dream celebrant ceremony and simply pair it with the standard, low-cost statutory legal signing at the register office beforehand. It currently costs £62 for the basic statutory "2+2" ceremony, plus the standard fees to give notice (typically £46.50 per person). You get the legal paperwork done affordably, and your real wedding day remains completely uncompromised.
What Does This Mean for Celebrants and Registrars?
For independent celebrants, this is the moment we have been fighting for. Our ceremonies will finally carry the full legal weight they deserve!
As for the local registrars? Well... expect them to be a little bit saltier than they already are for a while. But mark our words: once this law officially passes, we fully expect a rush of registrars jumping ship to train as independent celebrants so they can finally enjoy the creative freedom and joy that we get to experience every single day!
📣 Have Your Say!
This is a historic moment, and we need your help to push this over the line. Once the bill is presented to Parliament, we will need all of you to lobby your MPs—but right now, we need to flood the consultation!
I want to hear from you in the comments:
Have you already had your absolute dream, celebrant-led day? Tell us how magical it was!
Or are you currently planning your wedding and dreaming of the legal freedom to marry literally anywhere?
Share your thoughts, share this post, and let’s make some noise!
The consultation closes on 24th September 2026. Click the link below to read the proposals and have your say:
👉 Read the Official Government Consultation Here
(Note: If the brand-new consultation link is slow to load today while government servers update, you can also view the official announcement on the Ministry of Justice News Portal.)
I will be talking about this a fair bit over the coming weeks, so make sure to follow along for updates!
If you're ready to start planning your dream, bespoke ceremony, head over and meet your Editor and wedding celebrant Katie today!
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Celebrant Spotlight: Katie Flanagan The Modern Storyteller Cancelling the Traditional Wedding Rulebook
Kate Flanagan, Independent Wedding Celebrant, Settle, Ribble Valley, Skipton, Wennington
Editor's Note: Right then, brides and grooms to be! Grab yourselves a proper cuppa, get comfy, and settle in. Today the tables are officially turned because we are putting our very own Editor-in-Chief, Katie Flanagan, right in the hot seat.
Think of Katie as your ultimate wedding fairytale godmother—if your fairytale involves no strangers, less rigid rules, the right vibe and a lot more laughter, authenticity, and personality!
It is probably your first time planning a wedding, but Katie is a former wedding manager and in-house celebrant, she has planned, delivered, coordinated, and officiated at hundreds of weddings for all kinds of couples. So you and your wedding are in incredibly safe hands! Katie's version of a fairytale wedding completely bins the stuffy, boring traditions and instead puts your vibe, your core values, personalities, humours and your actual love story right at the centre of the day.
As a former luxury country estate Wedding Manager turned award-winning Independent Celebrant, Katie knows the UK wedding industry completely inside out. Operating right where the vibrant Lancashire borders meet the gorgeous, rugged Yorkshire Dales and the stunning Lake District, she brings her signature warmth and storytelling magic to couples marrying across the Ribble Valley, Settle, Skipton, Gisburn, Wennington, Kendal, and the South Lakes.
Katie is more than happy to travel beyond the Yorkshire and Lancashire area, covering the while UK, as well as destination weddings worldwide.
Let’s dive straight into her wedding secrets, local planning hacks, and why the old wedding script is officially being thrown out the window.
Katie’s Vibe
Q: Describe your ceremony style.
A: My style is built entirely around you and creating an immersive guest experience that makes you two and your love story the absolute main characters. I’ve seen too many strangers stand and read a template at couples, guests are bored stiff, I don’t believe your guests should just sit there passively watching a rigid script play out. Instead, I design a custom-written ceremony that completely wraps everybody up in your world and from the very first second, they are onboard! By putting your journey under the spotlight, your guests feel like an active, emotional part of the magic rather than just a crowd waiting for the drinks reception to start. Most importantly, you are in the driving seat — you choose the ceremony time, you choose the location for the ceremony (licensed or unlicensed), you choose the content, no music or words are banned.
Q: What made you transition from running luxury venues to standing at the front as a celebrant?
A: During my time as a luxury country house Wedding Manager, my team and I built absolutely amazing relationships with our couples. We spent months getting to know them inside out, we knew all their secrets, their unique vibes, their core values, their personalities, their senses of humour, their faiths, their families, and their beautiful love stories. We were even sworn to secrecy on a few pregnancies!
But then, minutes before the ceremony was due to start, we had to hand over our lovely couple to two complete strangers with a rigid, content-policed process for the most important bit of the entire day. When you deliver hundreds of weddings each year and you constantly see that exact same disconnect, everyone goes a bit ‘airport security’, you reach a turning point: you either become part of the problem, or you do something about it.
I chose to do something about it. I wanted to mend that disconnect entirely. I wanted to keep the wedding energy consistently high, from bridal squad hair and MUA and right through the day, rather than watching it take a massive dip during a boring ceremony. I stepped up to the altar because I wanted to create a ceremony that actually fit the couple, matched their personalities, and set the perfect tone for the rest of their amazing celebration.
Q: Who is your absolute dream couple to work with, and who is definitely not your vibe?
A: Let’s be completely honest, I am not "the show"! So if you’re a couple looking for a theatrical, crazy haired, OTT staged 'act', that’s simply not my bag. I am a modern storyteller with a warm Yorkshire vibe (think Jane McDonald if she did weddings). My job is to weave your actual, beautiful love story into a bespoke wedding ceremony infused entirely with your unique vibe, your quirks, your personalities, and your core values.
It will look, sound, and feel completely like yours, immersing your friends and family from the second they take their seats. By the time we're done, your guests will be saying it's the best wedding they've ever been to! My absolute dream couples are intentional; they do things because of the genuine sentiment behind them, they love adventure, slow intentional living, and they might have a fur baby they want to involve at some point!
Q: You didn't just stop at becoming a celebrant; you founded Celebrant Led Digital Wedding Magazine. How does the mag actually help couples plan a personal, intentional, and immersive wedding ceremony?
A: I built it because I realised couples needed a sanctuary away from the rigid, outdated establishment rules. I wanted to create a high-end digital magazine and matchmaker that empowers you to build an unconventional ceremony from the ground up. Through Celebrant Led, we actively connect couples with the wedding suppliers and venues who love celebrant led weddings.
The mag is full of wedding planning inspiration and trends, tips, guides, wedding industry insider secrets, dream venues, supplier spotlights and much more! Check out Celebrant Led Magazine.
Q: What geographical areas do you cover? Is there a limit to how far you'll travel?
A: I’m a Yorkshire Dales Lass, but I live on the edges of the Ribble Valley and South Lakes. I’m the premier wedding celebrant across the Ribble Valley, Wennington, Kendal, Skipton and Settle. I’m a regular at the fabulous James’ Places Dream Venues and I live less than 60 seconds away from the Falcon Manor, Settle — so if you’re looking for a sustainable celebrant, you can’t get closer than me!
I will travel anywhere for a love story, UK or destination weddings abroad. Wherever you want to say your vows, whether it's a barn in the Yorkshire Dales, country house in Lancashire, a chic London loft, a vineyard in Tuscany, or a beach in Cornwall —I’ll be there. Distance is no object when it comes to a great love story.
Q: Having a deep background as a luxury country house Wedding Manager is gold. How does that operational experience protect your couples?
A: Wedding operations and logistics are my absolute superpower. Before taking the leap to become a full-time independent celebrant, I was the Wedding Manager at a luxury country estate with three wedding coordinators reporting directly to me. Together, we planned and operationally delivered hundreds of weddings, and I even trained with the International College of Professional Celebrants and became the in-house celebrant to officiate them!
Because of that background, I see every single second of a wedding day through expert operational eyes. I can spot and solve a potential problem before it has even had a chance to cross your mind! While other celebrants only understand the words written on their page, I’m tracking the venue staff, the photographer's angles with the sun, the musician, and the room's energy. I’ve seen it all, run it all, and fixed it all. It means you get to stand at the altar with total, stress-free "main character" energy, knowing the ceremony is completely under control. You just focus on each other; I’ve got the rest sorted.
I’ve already had to turn down one date in March 2027 three times so far this year, so make sure you get in touch with me as early as you can to avoid disappointment!
🏛️ Busting the "Celebrant Myth" & The Legal Bit
Q: What is the single biggest misconception couples have when they hear the word "Celebrant"?
A: They assume a celebrant ceremony is "fake, when it’s actually the complete opposite! It’s the most authentic, real ceremony you will ever experience, because it is written exclusively for and about you.
The alternative is a rigid, 13-minute legal box-ticking exercise led by complete strangers following a strict, unchangeable process. Traditional registry options can leave guests feeling a bit bored, while your location, timing, and even your music choices are fully controlled and restricted by the establishment. A celebrant wedding hands the steering wheel completely back to you.
Q: How does a celebrant-led wedding work for couples planning a destination wedding abroad?
A: Oh, it is the ultimate stress-saver for destination weddings! Trying to navigate local legalities, language barriers, and foreign registry paperwork in another country can be an absolute nightmare.
Instead, my couples do the quick, £62 statutory legal bit here in the UK before they go. Then, we all jet off. Because I already know you inside out, your destination ceremony is delivered flawlessly in English, completely customised to you, and free from any rigid foreign legal restrictions. You get to have your dream ceremony under the Italian sun or overlooking a Greek beach, completely on your own terms!
Q: How do you explain the financial and legal side to couples marrying in the UK who are worried their families will think it's not "official"?
A: Couples are frequently shocked to find out that cost of a celebrant AND the 2+2 statutory ceremony is frequently cheaper than just having the registrar attend the venue and read the boring government template at you! The value in a Celebrant led ceremony is huge, because you are buying 100% freedom — you choose the ceremony time, the location, there is no restricted content, spontaneous vows are allowed, music containing religious wording isn’t banned. Your ceremony isn’t on a clock and it can breathe.
As a wedding manager I never saw registrars thanked by family or guests for a wonderful or amazing ceremony, because it’s always the same templates delivered... and it’s far from amazing. As a celebrant I cannot tell you how many family and guests have made a point of thanking me and expressing how much they enjoyed the ceremony. I’ve had couples and one Mother of the Bride spontaneously hug me and express their absolute delight, before exiting down the aisle at the end of the ceremony.
So how do you do a 2 part wedding? In the UK, you register the legal marriage separately. You just book a basic statutory 2+2 ceremony at your local register office (which costs just £62 plus the standard fee per person to give notice). You still need to give notice and you must book a date for your ceremony. Go in your casual clothes (or full wedding attire if you wish) with two witnesses, sign the paperwork, and handle the legal paperwork, you can read more about the 2+2 statutory ceremony here.
That means your actual wedding day is completely freed from legal tape. Your family won't think it's fake for a single second; they'll be completely blown away by how emotional it is and how much it actually feels like you.
Q: You focus exclusively on weddings and don’t offer funeral services like many other celebrants do. What led to that decision?
A: That was a very deliberate boundary for me. While conducting funerals is an honour and others juggle funerals and weddings, my office operates on a strict, uncompromised rule: 100% weddings and happy ceremonies such as vow renewals and naming ceremonies only. With my extensive background, weddings are my absolute superpower, so it made no sense to dilute my expertise and pivot to include the somber celebrations of life.
Writing and delivering a deeply emotional or harrowing funeral service requires an immense amount of emotional input. Grief is incredibly heavy. I strongly believe that there are inevitable, invisible trace elements of "grief transfer" that can happen if a celebrant is juggling writing or conducting a difficult funeral right around the same time they are supposed to be crafting or delivering your wedding script and I don’t want to risk anything affecting your wedding ceremony.
Q: How does that strict "weddings-only" policy benefit the couples who book you?
A: It means your wedding ceremony never has to share an office, a laptop, or an emotional headspace with sorrow.
By dedicating my practice entirely to the happy celebrations of life, I can guarantee that the energy I bring into your planning space fits your vibe. When I sit down to write your love story, my mind is entirely clear of the shadows of loss. Your wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime celebration, and it deserves a celebrant who is 100% focused on your happiness and your future!
💡 The Masterclass: Pro Tips & Local Advice
Q: Given our notoriously unpredictable English weather, what is your top advice for couples planning an outdoor ceremony in the North, from the Ribble Valley up to Kendal?
A: You need a seamless contingency plan, darling. Choose a backup space and decor setup that can easily moved and become a simple, beautiful "Plan B" without causing any logistical fuss or panic on the morning of.
Lean into the climate: consider providing umbrellas or fans for your guests. It’s England—there are some days you might genuinely need both at the exact same time! Crucially, make sure your live musicians or DJ have a canopy over their heads and are utilising a high-quality, completely wireless amplifier setup so they can move easily if the wind or rain shifts.
Q: What is one wedding industry tradition you wish couples would officially bin because it kills the ceremony vibe?
A: The rigid registrar restrictions. When the registrars arrive at a venue there is a disconnect and an energy change that is palpable, not just for the couple, but for the entire wedding team, the venue staff, the musicians, the photographers, the videographers, and the content creators all deflate when a couple of strangers are added to what has felt like a really lovely and supportive, private members club!
When it’s celebrant led, everyone can finally breathe! The photographer isn't being yelled at about where they can stand or for clicking the camera shutter too much, the venue team isn't stressed about the strict council clock ticking (registrars rush off to other venues to read the same script again, and again) and as a result, your suppliers can actually relax and do what they do best.
Q: Can I find recommendations for celebrant friendly UK wedding venues and suppliers on Celebrant Led?
A: Absolutely! That is exactly why Celebrant Led was born. Celebrant Led is fast becoming the premier hub for couples looking to book their wedding day 'Dream Team'. We don't just list anyone; we actively curate and recommend exceptional UK wedding venues and suppliers who genuinely champion modern, celebrant-led weddings.
Whether you are searching for a hidden gem venue in the Ribble Valley, a wild hillside setting in Settle, or an open-air lawn near Kendal, our directory connects you with suppliers who know exactly how a celebrant led wedding day works without the stress.
Q: Are you inclusive, and do you specialise in non-traditional ceremonies?
If you are searching for a wedding celebrant who specialises in non-traditional ceremonies, you want someone who is deeply inclusive, completely unflappable, and entirely open to out-of-the-box thinking.
As a professional celebrant I make sure your ceremony is entirely about you two. That means I don't box you into a specific category. Your ceremony can be completely traditional, wildly non-traditional, or a gorgeous blend of both. We can weave in elements from all things, whether that’s a modern twist on a classic custom, something quirky you’ve just invented, or ‘tying the knot’ in a meaningful hand-fasting ritual of old.
I am not biased or fazed by neurodivergence, a crying toddler, or a grandad with dementia... or all three simultaneously. Whatever happens, I just adapt with warmth, humour, and grace, ensuring every single guest feels welcome.
📞 How to Book Katie Flanagan
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🚨 The Registrar Reality Check: 10 Shocking Things the Registrars Can Do at YOUR Wedding (And You Can’t Stop Them!)
Outdoor Wedding at Wennington Hall Photo Credit: Katie Flanagan
Hey lovely! Grab a cuppa, because we need to have a serious, completely unfiltered chat about your wedding ceremony.
When you’re deep in the trenches of dress shopping, Pinterest-boarding, and choosing floral arrangements, it’s so easy to assume that booking a local registrar means you’re hiring a dedicated professional to bring your dream day to life.
But I’m about to drop a major truth bomb that most couples don’t find out until it’s way too late: Registrars do not work for you. They work for the local council. They aren’t there to pander to your romantic vision; they are there to enforce a rigid, 19th-century legal process. And because they hold the ultimate power on your day, they can make some pretty shocking executive decisions, and there is absolutely nothing that you, your wedding venue team, or your planner can do about it.
When a council registrar says no, their word is absolute law on that day.
Don't believe me? Here are ten completely factual, real-world scenarios that happen at civil ceremonies in England and Wales every single weekend.
1. They Can Legally Ban Your Absolute Favourite Music
By law, a registry office or civil ceremony must be strictly secular. That means absolutely zero mention of religion, faith, or spiritual concepts. And council registrars take this rule very seriously. The tiniest hint of a "spiritual" word will get your track violently crossed off the permitted playlist.
Think you’re safe with modern pop and indie classics? Think again:
Alex Warren - Ordinary: Frequently banned because the lyrics mention "holy water."
Ruelle - I Get to Love You: Often rejected because it says "I prayed for you."
Niall Horan - Heaven: Mentions god and heaven, it’s a double no!
Beyoncé - Halo: Angels and pray amongst the lyrics, it’s another no!
The Beach Boys’ God Only Knows: Nope. It has the G-word right there in the title. Strictly forbidden.
Imagine the absolute heartbreak of picturing yourself walking down the aisle to ‘your song’ for months, only to find out that you are legally not allowed to play it. If you’ve managed to swerve one of these past your register office, well done, you have succeeded where thousands have failed before you!
2. One Tiny Grey Cloud Can Kill Your Outdoor Dream
You’ve spent a fortune booking a gorgeous venue with a stunning outdoor ceremony space. Your decor stylists have spent hours setting the scene, and you've been dreaming of that perfect open-air walk down the aisle.
But if there is even a single, grey cloud in the sky on the morning of your wedding, the registrar can take one look up, decide they don't want to risk going outside, and shut it down. They will declare it an indoor ceremony, and just like that, your vision (and £££’s) is gone. Your wedding coordinator can beg on their knees, you can scream, you can cry, but if the registrar says your ceremony is going inside, it is going inside.
3. They Can Ban the Outdoor Dream If It’s "Too Hot" (Leaving Your Decor Abandoned)
Think you're safe if the weather is flawless? You’ve buried a sausage, paid an Etsy Witch and it’s a blazing, glorious summer’s day, but the registrar decides it is simply too hot for them to stand outside under the sun, they have the authority to move your entire ceremony indoors. Because they are council employees governed by strict workplace health and safety regulations, their personal comfort overrides your wedding aesthetic and ultimately they call the shots!
The real kicker? If your decor is all set up beautifully outside, but timing means it cannot be stripped and re-moved in time for their strict schedule, you are forced to leave all your stunning flowers and styling abandoned outdoors, while you get married in a stark, bleak, empty backup function room. Your venue coordinator can beg, your planner can plead, but if the council official wants the air conditioning, you are going inside and you’re going to seeth all day!
4. Every Single Word is Audited, Spontaneity is Banned
Forget the romantic idea of scribbling down your deepest, most heartfelt promises the week before the wedding, or going totally off-the-cuff to say exactly how you feel right in the moment. In a registrar-led ceremony, spontaneity is banned.
Everything, I mean every reading, poem, vow, and personal promise, has to be submitted to the council weeks in advance to be strictly checked for "suitability." If your personal vows contain a phrase they deem religious, or a poem leans even a fraction outside their secular guidelines, it’ll be rejected. If it doesn't tick their specific box in advance, you cannot say it.
📌 The Ceremony Freedom Checklist
(Drop this handy comparison chart straight into your wedding planning board on Pinterest so you don't forget!)
The Registrar Ceremony Independent Celebrant Ceremony
❌ Script must be strictly secular, no religion! ✅ Bespoke script built entirely around you, anything goes!
❌ Every word audited weeks in advance. ✅ Total freedom, write your vows the night before!
❌ Popular songs banned over minor words. ✅ Play any track, hymn, or band you love.
❌ Strict timings, location and content. ✅ Your day, you choose the ceremony time, location and content.
5. They Actively Censor What Your Photographer Can Capture
You are paying thousands of pounds for a professional photographer, videographer and maybe a content creator to capture the most meaningful moments of your life. Yet, registrars routinely power-trip and censor exactly what can be recorded.
Many registrars will look your photographer in the eye before the ceremony and ban them from moving an inch, forcing them to stand rigidly at the very back of the room. Others will straight-up stop them from taking shots or recording video during key parts of the service, such as the exchange of vows. And when it comes to signing the marriage schedule? Many still refuse to let the photographer capture the actual moment due to local council "data protection" policies.
6. They Can Ban Your Styling Team's Decor (Just Because)
As a former wedding manager, I have seen this happen so many times it breaks my heart. Your incredible styling team spends three hours perfectly curating your vision, complete with stunning hurricane lamps with floating candles, tealights on the signing table.
The registrars walk in for their pre-ceremony check, look at the candles, and say, "No. Unlit or removed, please." You’re in a stone barn with a stone flagged flooor, the chair sashes and table drapes are fire retardant material. There’s real reason, just a blanket "health and safety" call or just because. The venue team is completely powerless to argue. The result? The candles are left unlit, looking like the styling team forgot to finish the room, or they’re taken away, leaving an empty, cold space right where you’re supposed to make your grand entrance.
7. They Can Enforce a Mandatory One-Hour Wait If They Suspect You've Had a Drink
We all know about pre-wedding nerves. But if you, your partner or guests are seen with alcohol near the ceremony space, you are playing a dangerous game.
By law, registrars must ensure both parties have the full legal capacity to enter into a marriage contract. If they smell alcohol on your breath, see anyone drinking or believe your ability to consent is compromised, they can enforce a mandatory one-hour wait before they will even consider starting the ceremony. And because they are on a brutal, tight schedule with many ceremonies to undertake per day, a one-hour delay usually means they have to drive off to their next wedding, leaving your day completely derailed.
8. They Can Stop Your Ceremony Dead If They See a Hip-Flask
Got a nervous Best Man or a Groom who likes a tipple? If a registrar spots anyone, and I mean anyone, with an alcoholic drink in the ceremony room, they have the legal authority to halt the proceedings immediately. That includes a cheeky, sentimental hip-flask secreted away in the Best Man’s inside jacket pocket for a bit of Dutch courage. If that flask makes an appearance before the legal paperwork is finished, everything stops.
9. They Can Reject Witnesses on the Spot If They Don’t Speak English
You need two witnesses to sign the marriage schedule, but those witnesses have to actually understand English to witness a legal contract. If you have chosen a beloved international relative or friend who doesn't speak or understand English fluently, the registrar can reject them on the spot. If you don't have a backup witness who can step up immediately and satisfies the council's requirements, your ceremony cannot legally go ahead.
10. If You Are Late, They Will Literally Leave
Traffic nightmare? Hair and makeup running 20 minutes behind? Important guest running late? Registrars operate on a brutal, back-to-back schedule with multiple weddings lined up. If your slot passes, they will pack up their books and drive away to their next appointment. They will not pander to you being fashionably late, or accidentally late, they just do not have the time.
Compare that to my last wedding. The bride left home in a gorgeous vintage car with her parents, only for her dad to realise mid-journey that he’d forgotten his speech. They had to loop all the way back, and by the time they turned around, they got completely caught in traffic for a local gala. I waited 40 minutes for her. Because I’m an independent celebrant, we were chilled, the bride was chilled, and she knew I had everything under control keeping things on track. We went on to have the most fabulous, relaxed ceremony, it was everything they wanted it to be.
A registrar simply would not have been there when she arrived.
There would have been no wedding.
What are the benefits of choosing a celebrant led wedding over a registrar led wedding ?
Choosing a bespoke, intentional ceremony means you escape rigid council rules. When couples ask how Celebrant Led helps plan a personal, intentional, and immersive wedding ceremony, this is exactly it: we remove the clinical bureaucracy and hand total creative control back to you.
The Solution? It's Time to Take Back Control and For You Call to the Shots
If you don’t want to gamble the most important moment of your life on council bureaucracy, there is a wonderfully liberating alternative.
You need an Independent Celebrant to lead your wedding.
When you choose an independent celebrant, they work for you, not the council. They follow your exact instructions, your vibe, your unique personality, and your wildest dreams. Unlike humanists (who are completely secular and restrictive about faith just like a registrar), independent celebrants give you total freedom. Want to weave in a religious blessing, a cultural ritual, or elements of faith alongside completely secular fun? We can blend them all together beautifully. No music is banned, no content is policed. It is YOUR wedding day!
The Legals Step-by-Step (The "2+2" Hack):
To do this, you still need to book ahead and plan it properly:
You book an appointment to give notice of marriage at your local register office, which costs £46.50 each.
There must be 28 clear days between giving that notice and your actual legal appointment to marry.
You book the 2+2 statutory ceremony (just you, your partner, and two witnesses) at the council office, which costs just £62. You turn up in your jeans, or a wedding dress, or Christmas jumpers on a quiet Tuesday morning, repeat a line each, sign the legal paperwork, and get it out of the way in under 5 minutes. You don’t even have to do rings and vows!
Then, your actual wedding day belongs entirely to you and the vision you created.
📖 Unsure what to ask for? Read our step-by-step walkthrough on How to Book a UK Statutory 2+2 Wedding Ceremony.
It’s time to back control of your day.
Click here to see the energy and body language difference in photos - between a registrar led wedding and a celebrant led wedding, same couple, same day, same photographer. Wildly different level of energy!
Take back control of your day. Head over to our Celebrant Directory right now to find a wedding celebrant who can create a personalised ceremony, and learn exactly what you should look for when selecting a wedding celebrant for your dream day!
Katie - Editor
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James Li, Wedding Coordinator, Carlton Manor, Hull - Photo credit: Vicky Benge
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Capacities & Spaces
Q Venue Location: Where in the UK can we find you?
Aldbrough, East Riding of Yorkshire
Q Venue Capacity: Maximum guest numbers for the ceremony and the wedding breakfast?
Intimate Barn Weddings of up to 60 daytime and 100 evening
Tipi Weddings of up to 120 daytime and 200 evening
Q The Ceremony Spaces: Do you offer both indoor and outdoor ceremony spaces?
Yes, our ceremony Barn is a perfect space for ceremonies
We also have a lawned area by a large Oak tree for outside ceremonies
Q The Accomodation: Do you have any on site?
We can accommodate up to 83 guests onsite. Our elegant Manor House has up to 11 rooms, sleeping up to 24 guests. The house also has plenty of communal spaces for guests to gather the day before or after the wedding celebrations have finished.
We also have 12 glamping pods. These vary in sizes from 2 person all the way up to our family pods that sleep up to 7. Our pods are all ensuite and include a kitchenette, underfloor heating, tv and wifi.
All of our accommodation is located onsite so no travelling required!
Photography credits: Vicky Benge Photography and Sam Chipman Photography
Venue Highlights
Q The Standout Feature:
What is the one feature of your venue that couples always fall in love with?
Our Tipis certainly have the wow factor for couples looking for a unique wedding space but our Manor House will always be the part of the venue our couples fall in love with. From the individually styled bedrooms to the large guest kitchen and communal spaces. Perfect for guests to gather the night before the wedding.
The Pro Tips
Q Top tip: What is your top piece of advice for couples planning their wedding?
It may sound very cliché but do what makes you both happy! It is so easy to get lost in planning a wedding and trying to keep everyone happy. Ultimately, your guests will be happy just being there to celebrate your big day!
As a true Yorkshireman, I would also have to offer a money saving tip!
Think of how you can repurpose your décor from your ceremony. Many couples will plan for styling to be used for the wedding breakfast and evening reception.
Q The Innovation: What is the most ‘genius’ wedding planning move or cost-saver you’ve seen a couple pull off?
Catering for your big day can be quite overwhelming as costs can soon start mounting up as you add on all of the additional extras.
A lovely couple I worked with kept their catering costs down by providing their own platters for the reception. They sourced locally made sausage rolls, pork pies and artisan breads. This was a great idea as an alternative to canapes.
They also then asked guests to bring a dessert for the wedding. They were all placed on tables and became the couple’s dessert table. Score cards were provided by the couple and post wedding breakfast, the couple announced the winning dessert. Very much in keeping with The Great British Bake Off!
Q Where should a couple spend their entertainment budget for maximum impact?
Live music is always a winner in my view as it just lifts a wedding day to another level. With this in mind, plan for when you would like live music. My preference would always be for the ceremony, drinks reception and evening reception.
Photo booths are always popular too. Guests love having fun photos taken and it can double up as a photo guest book too which means the couple leave with a keepsake of their special day.
“Burying a sausage the night before the wedding. Anything which helps ensure it doesn’t rain on the wedding day is a bonus in my eyes. I even have a designated sausage plot where this is done at Carlton Manor!”
Style & Trends
Q Best aisle entrance song?
Ruelle – I get to Love You
Q Best aisle exit song?
Natalie Cole – This Will Be (an everlasting love)
Q Favourite colour scheme?
I am all about the bold and vibrant colours. The more fun and different, the better. Think eclectic wildflowers and bold accent colours for chair sashes and table runners!
Q Favourite wedding cake flavour?
My all time favourite was a banoffee wedding cake!
Q What favours do guests actually keep?
I always recommend wedding favours that can either be eaten or drunk. Little sweet bags, personalised biscuits or shots of your favourite drink always go down well.
Traditions
Q One ‘Old’ tradition you still love.
Burying a sausage the night before the wedding. Anything which helps ensure it doesn’t rain on the wedding day is a bonus in my eyes. I even have a designated sausage plot where this is done at Carlton Manor!
Q One ‘New’ tradition you’re currently obsessed with?
I will always love seeing stunning wedding cakes, but I do love how ingenious couples are now becoming with this tradition. Couples opting for something different have created cakes of cheese and pork pie cakes. Other alternatives have been towers of cupcakes or doughnuts.
The Ceremony:
Q Everyone working on the wedding floor loves a Celebrant Led wedding, why do you love them?
Although civil ceremonies are still lovely, they do become a little repetitive. What I love the most about a celebrant led ceremony is how bespoke they are for each couple. I love how a celebrant will sit down with a couple and find out all about them and what makes them tick. They will then create an amazing ceremony which they will be happy with, rather than feeling shoehorned into a ceremony that might not be what they want. Every celebrant led ceremony I have been a part of has been different. Some couples still opt for more of a traditional ceremony but add a handfasting or sand ceremony. Others throw in more unusual things. My favourite was when a couple had the rings tied to toy dinosaurs which were passed round the guests while the Jurassic Park theme tune was played!
These are the things which truly make a ceremony memorable.
You can contact James and find out more about the Carlton Manor Team by clicking here
Celebrant vs Registrar: What is the Difference for a UK Wedding?
If you’ve recently started dipping your toes into the beautiful, slightly overwhelming world of wedding planning, you’ve probably stumbled across a major question: “What exactly is the difference between a registrar and a wedding celebrant?”
First of all, if you're feeling a bit confused by the lingo, take a deep breath. You are completely normal! It’s one of the things couples ask about most often. The wedding world has its own vocabulary, but today, we’re breaking it down together—no jargon, just honest advice to help you figure out what fits your unique love story.
Think of it this way: both paths get you beautifully married, but the experience of getting there feels entirely different. Let’s look at how they compare.
Same couple, same day, same photographer Georgie Beck — wildly difference energy and body language!
Yellow dress - 3PM registrar led ceremony White dress - 6PM celebrant led ceremony
1. The Legalities vs. The Luxury of Choice
The most important practical difference comes down to the legal paperwork.
The Registrar: A registrar is a local government official. Their primary job is legal compliance, they are there to follow a strict process and officially register a marriage under the law. Because of this, they are bound by strict legal rules. For example, they can only perform ceremonies in legally licensed venues, and they aren't allowed to include any religious or spiritual content (not even a song lyric or a poem that mentions a prayer or an angel — sorry Alex Warren, Ruelle, and Robbie Williams, you’re banned content!).
The Celebrant: Celebrants focus entirely on the heart of the wedding. They don't handle the legal registration side, most couples pop down to the register office a few days before their wedding for a quick, low-key statutory ceremony to do the legals (ask for a 2+2 £62) Because the legalities are separated from the celebration, all the rules disappear. Couples choose the ceremony time and can get married on a clifftop at sunrise, in a parents’ back garden, or at a midnight festival. If they want a mix of cultures, a touch of spirituality, or a completely secular script, it’s all fair game. There’s also zero restriction on music so you can have Alex Warren, Ruelle, Robbie Williams, or a ‘primary school bangers’ singalong!
2. A Script from a Template vs. A Story Written Just For You
Imagine the ceremony script.
Should it feel standard, the same as the next couples, or should it sound completely personal and belong only to you?
The Registrar: Registrars do their jobs, but they operate on a tight schedule. They use standard, pre-approved templates where they slot in the couple's names. Couples can choose from a few set phrasing options for their vows, but there isn't room to weave in quirky inside jokes, how they met on a rainy Tuesday, or the story of their first disastrous holiday together. You say spontaneous vows, everything needs approving and policing for banned content.
The Celebrant: When booking a celebrant, the ceremony is hand-crafted from a completely blank page. Celebrants spend time getting to know each couple over coffees or video calls, learning their vibe, their values, and what makes them laugh and why they chose each other. The ceremony becomes a living, breathing storytelling session that will have guests laughing one minute and tearing up the next.
3. "Who will turn up?" vs. A Familiar Friend by Your Side
On the morning of a wedding, emotions run high and the jitters are very real. Having a familiar, calming face waiting at the end of the aisle can make a world of difference to how a couple feels.
The Registrar: When booking the registrars, couples are reserving a time slot rather than a specific person. Because registrars manage multiple weddings a day over a large area, it’s normal for a couple to meet their registrar for the very first time just twenty minutes before walking down the aisle. The registrars couldn’t pick you out of a lineup!
The Celebrant: Choosing a celebrant is an entirely different experience. From the moment they are hired, a team dynamic is born. You feel connected, they fit your vibe and values. They are there to bounce ideas off of, refine drafts with, and build a genuine relationship over months of planning. By the time the big day actually arrives, that celebrant feels like a trusted friend who has the couple's backs, knows their story inside out, and is completely invested in their happiness. You’ll probably wonder if you should invite them to stay after the ceremony… this is exactly how comfortable you should feel. But no you really don’t need to!
The Quick Checklist: Which vibe is yours?
You might prefer a Registrar if: You are not particularly fussy about the ceremony time. You’re not particularly anxious about strangers. You are always punctual. Your wedding ceremony songs don’t contain any religious terminology. You want the legal paperwork and the celebration done in one single swoop, you don’t mind having a template ceremony. and you are getting married in a standard, licensed venue.
You might prefer a Celebrant if: You want to choose your own ceremony time. You want a song that quotes a religious word - Alex Warren ✅ Robbie Williams ✅ Ruelle ✅ Niall Horan ✅. You want a ceremony that feels yours. You want your guests to say "OMG that was so THEM.” You want to write personal vows without restrictions, or you’ve fallen in love with an unconventional, unlicensed venue. You want to have a true twilight ceremony, light fading, beyond the ceremony times of the registrars. You have social anxiety. You are known for being late.
So, is a Celebrant worth it?
At the end of the day, a wedding ceremony shouldn't just be the "boring bit" guests have to sit through before the drinks flow.
It is the literal launchpad for the rest of a couple's lives together!
If you want a ceremony that feels warm, inclusive, highly personal, and full of joy, investing in a celebrant means investing in an unforgettable experience for both you and your guests.
Wherever you are in your planning journey, remember to trust your gut and choose the path that makes you both feel the most comfortable, celebrated, and loved. You’ve got this!
Good luck and happy planning!
Katie, Editor
Supplier Spotlight: Andrew Miller Photography
Time to grab a cuppa, get comfy, and settle in for our latest Supplier Spotlight — our go-to space where we interview the nation's favourite wedding suppliers to bring you all the best styling tips, hacks and insider advice for your big day.
In the hot seat today is Andrew Miller — world's most handsome Jaffa Cake-eating, Bon Jovi-loving, weak-tea-drinking wedding photographer.
Katie, Editor
So, who is behind Andrew Miller Photography?
Andrew Miller — world's most handsome Jaffa Cake-eating, Bon Jovi-loving, weak-tea-drinking wedding photographer.
Q: Katie: To kick things off, give us the quick headlines so our readers know exactly who you are and the magic you create!
A: I'm the world's most handsome Jaffa Cake eating, Bon Jovi loving, weak tea drinking (decaf Yorkshire please), braid wearing wedding photographer in the world.
Q: Katie: Where are you based, how far do you travel, and what are your favourite kinds of spaces to work with?
A: I live in South Wales but travel the UK in my self-built campervan. I don't really have favourite venues — I love all of them for different reasons. The ones I love working at are the ones that celebrate the openness and inclusivity of weddings and aren't overly strict about allowing the couple to do what they want, how they want it. Many venues operate with a 'We always do it this way' attitude — think venues doing 300 weddings a year — and that's restrictive and boundary-driven. That's not my vibe.
Behind the Designs
Q: Katie: How did you find your way into the wedding world, and what was the moment you realised this was your calling?
A: Oh… TL;DR! Twelve years in military intelligence (oxymoron, I know!) finishing in HumInt — basically spying. I did my photography degree whilst in the military. Left 26 years ago, shot weddings for beer and worked as a Business Psychologist until the financial crash in 2007/2008. Then I started charging full prices for full days of wedding photography and I've never had a year where I haven't been fully booked.
Q: Katie: What is the core philosophy, style, and value system that defines your work today?
A: I'm not into A-type couples or pixel-perfect Instagram weddings — never have been. I'm neurodivergent and love working in that space and with similar people. I'm part wedding photographer, part event manager and part stand-up comedian — although somehow I still find time to take ridiculously good photos. I'll turn up with cameras, sarcasm, questionable jokes and probably weak decaf Yorkshire Tea, then deliver your wedding gallery before your honeymoon tan fades — usually within a week. Couples who 'hate having their photo taken' suddenly end up looking like they've been secretly modelling for Vogue for years.
Q: Katie: Describe your 'dream couple' — the people that make you instantly say, 'Yes, I absolutely need to work with them!'
A: If I meet a couple with zero sense of sarcastic humour, it's an immediate no. My perfect couple will have an understanding of LOTR, The Hobbit and the Silmarillion. Terry Pratchett lovers, D&D freaks and people who won't be fazed when I say 'always make sure you have a towel with you.' They'll be Whovians, Trekkies and May the 4th Lovers. I'm a neurodivergent geeky nerd and love couples who want to be different and do things the way THEY want.
“I’ll turn up with cameras, sarcasm, questionable jokes and probably weak decaf Yorkshire Tea, then deliver your wedding gallery before your honeymoon tan fades — usually within a week. Couples who ‘hate having their photo taken’ suddenly end up looking like they’ve been secretly modelling for Vogue for years.”
Trends & Expert Secrets
Q: Katie: What is the most unique or wonderfully memorable wedding you've ever been a part of?
A: Twenty years doing this, 1,000 weddings — that's a tough one. Weddings are exactly the same: two people in love get married. Yet every wedding is totally different because, well, people! I enjoy weddings where I can let my personality loose, where I can join in — dress up as The Witcher, for instance — and people appreciate me for being me. Over those 20 years I've had so many experiences like this it's impossible to pick just one.
Q: Katie: What exciting new patterns and directions are you noticing right now?
A: I'm noticing more weddings are non-traditional. Many more celebrant-led weddings (YES!), with couples bringing their subcultures into their day — cosplayers, LARPers and so on are not afraid to be out there and enjoy the wedding they want, with the friendship groups they have.
Q: Katie: What would you love to see more UK couples embrace?
A: The UK Parliament gets off its backside and finally updates the Marriage Act to allow celebrants to conduct the legal service as well as the more traditional celebrant stuff. That will rock the industry's world. Imagine getting married on a mountaintop in North Wales dressed as 7th century Vikings and being able to do it legally! I'd love to finish my almost 20-year career in the wedding industry by legally marrying couples like this.
Q: Katie: What insider advice would you give couples planning their wedding?
A: Don't get into debt — it's not worth it. That average cost of £30k for a wedding is better spent on a house deposit or an ISA. Think small, think intimate, think lifetime memories over long-term debt. Best advice — apply for an interest-free credit card and whatever the limit comes back as, that's your budget!
“Think small, think intimate, think lifetime memories over long-term debt. Best advice — apply for an interest-free credit card and whatever the limit comes back as, that’s your budget!”
The Wedding Journey & Meaning
Q: Katie: When a couple books you, what does that journey look like from start to finish?
A: I insist on meeting — preferably face to face, but online if not. I'm not overly bothered about the wedding itself. I want to know about them: what they do, how many kids they have, what they like and dislike, their sense of humour, and how they make my tea. The tea, by the way, is such a deal-breaker I have a playlist on my YouTube channel devoted to how I like it! One of my tea videos on Instagram has 1.3 million views and almost 1,000 comments. Booking me is more than booking a wedding photographer — it's booking a person who makes the whole wedding day experience fun, enjoyable and less anxious.
Q: Katie: What is one old-school wedding tradition you're secretly glad modern couples are ditching?
A: I've never been an Instagram-type wedding photographer anyway, but I'm also seeing more and more couples have mixed squads — ladies in the Groom's Gang and guys in the Bride Tribe. I love that.
Q: Katie: When you're off-the-clock, where can we find you?
A: If you can get there, you'll find me on a remote mountaintop in a tent. Cadair Idris is my number one go-to, but there are also spots around South Wales and the Peak District I love. I like the solitude and openness of being by myself and getting my head straight again.
“I’m also seeing more and more couples have mixed squads — ladies in the Groom’s Gang and guys in the Bride Tribe. I love that.”
Stalk Their Work…
Andrew's website is basically written to scare away people he won't get on with: Website: www.andrew-miller.co.uk
Registrar or Celebrant? What does a Wedding Celebrant actually do …and is it worth having one?
Text image: Registrar or Celebrant?
If you’ve started wedding planning and found yourself wondering, “What exactly does a wedding celebrant do, and is it worth having one?” you’re definitely not alone. As a wedding celebrant, it’s one of the questions I’m asked most often.
Celebrant or Registrar: What’s the difference?
Understanding who officiates your day changes everything about how your wedding feels, how your timeline functions, and what elements you are allowed to include.
Grab a cuppa, get comfy, knowledge is power and you need to know this!
Registrars: Who are they and can they do a legal marriage?
A registrar performs a legally binding marriage ceremony on behalf of the local authority (the local council). They operate strictly within current UK marriage laws under defined bureaucratic parameters.
The Logistics: A registrar can only conduct ceremonies at a council register office or an officially approved, licensed wedding venue. There will always be two registrars present on your day. One to stand and officiate the service and one to record the legal marriage.
Stranger Danger: They will in 99% of cases be complete strangers to you on your wedding day. Because local authority registrars perform a high volume of civil ceremonies within their district on any given day, they operate on an incredibly strict timeline. You absolutely cannot be late; they are on a rigid clock to reach their next booking and the one after that, and running late can risk your ceremony being cancelled completely. The registrars are there to
The Content Boundaries: The ceremony is read entirely from a standardised, legally approved template with almost no leeway for personalisation or custom storytelling. Crucially, the ceremony must be strictly secular. By law, it can contain absolutely no religious or spiritual elements. This includes background tracks, entrance songs, or readings.
If your dream aisle entrance music is Alex Warren’s Ordinary, or Ruelle’s - I get to love you, they both contain religious references (holy water, I thank God for you etc ) and are frequently banned songs by the registrars.
A registrar led ceremony must be secular, the registrars will not allow any mention of God or religious references. If you’ve managed to get either of these songs past a registrar, well done, many couples have gone before you and failed!
Celebrants: Who are they and can they do a legal marriage?
An independent wedding celebrant performs a highly personalised ceremony focused entirely on you, your love story, your lifestyle, and your individual values.
Location Freedom: A celebrant can officiate your ceremony absolutely anywhere you choose. You are not confined to licensed structures. You can get married in your own garden, a farmer's field, a festival woodland, a local pub, a football pitch, a steam train, a boat, a retro cinema, or on a beach at sunset!
Personal Connection: Celebrants are not strangers, you will get to know your celebrant personally over a period of time and they will feel like a friend. They will write a completely bespoke script from scratch designed exclusively around your story and what you want and don’t want for your ceremony. When you work with a celebrant, there are no generic templates, no copy and paste scripts, no restrictions on what you can include, and no being told you only have a certain number of minutes to tell your story.
Timing Flexibility: A celebrant-led ceremony is built around your day's unique flow. Celebrants typically book only one wedding per day, meaning they work for you, not the local council. You can breathe, if something happens and you are late, you don’t have the crippling fear that your officiant will pack up and leave to go to the next wedding, or cut your ceremony short.
Freedom of Content: You face zero content restrictions. You can seamlessly blend faiths, cultures, modern traditions, and spiritual elements. If you want to use popular songs like Alex Warren's "Ordinary"or Ruelle's "I Get to Love You" as your entrance or exit track, you have complete freedom to do so.
Is it Legal?: Independent celebrants cannot conduct legally binding marriages in England and Wales… yet! But watch this space: following extensive reports from the Law Commission, the industry is actively advocating for wedding law reform to move licensing from the venue to the individual officiant. In the meantime, modern couples simply complete their wedding in two straightforward parts (see next section).
The Rise of the Two-Part Wedding
Favoured by celebrities and modern couples alike, the two-part wedding splits the legal administrative paperwork from the emotional, aisle entrance, rings and vows. Think of it like this: exchanging a couple of sentences and signing the paperwork in a register office is the first part, and then having your actual, unforgettable wedding ceremony with your loved ones is the second part.
Some couples get worried about having two distinct wedding dates, but honestly don’t overthink this!
When a child is born, that exact calendar day is their birthday. The birth has to be officially registered at a register office within 42 days of the birth, but nobody in the world treats the administrative registration date as a second birthday, or their official anniversary.
Your wedding day is the day you stand before your favourite people and make your vows. Do both parts in the same week and celebrant a wedding anniversary week.
Credit: Georgie Beck Photography for both ceremonies, check out the body language - can you see the energy change?
Can you do both parts on the same day?
Yes, you can, our gorgeous couple pictured above did just that, with the register office at 3pm and their celebrant led ceremony at 6pm read about it. However, wearing my former wedding manager hat, I would advise against booking both on the same day due to the logistics. Running between locations puts immense pressure on hair and makeup timings, transport logistics, and your bridal party's energy levels.
For example, I recently officiated the wedding of this gorgeous couple, they went down to the register office at 3:00 PM to complete the legal bit, followed by a lakeside, twilight, celebrant led ceremony at 6:00 PM. While it was absolutely magnificent, the back-and-forth travel and a second dress-change made the schedule tight for the bridal party.
“Get the legal paperwork out of the way quietly at the beginning of the week (Monday or Tuesday). This keeps stress levels low, saves money, and allows you to enjoy an extended “wedding anniversary week” every single year!”
Everything You Need to Know About the 2+2 Statutory Ceremony
The 2+2 ceremony is the absolute legal minimum marriage framework available in England and Wales. It is a functional, administrative appointment designed to complete the marriage schedule. It currently costs a baseline of £62 (plus the standard £45 fee per person to officially give notice of marriage at your local register office).
What is required for a 2+2 Statutory Ceremony?
The Couple: Both partners must attend in person.
Two Legal Registrars: One official to administer the vows and one to register the details digitally.
Two Witnesses: You must bring two witnesses who are aged 16 or over and can fully understand spoken English. Please note: Register office staff and building staff are legally prohibited from acting as your witnesses. While you can technically ask passers-by or other couples in the building, this is risky. It is always recommended to bring two people, or even a couple of your wedding suppliers (photographer and celebrant).
What is included in the 2+2 process?
Full Legal Names: The couple must clearly state their full legal names.
Declaratory Words: You must state aloud that you know of no legal reason why you cannot be married, choosing from brief, standard legally approved scripts.
Contracting Words: You officially take each other as husband, wife, or legal partner using simple, pre-approved statutory phrasing.
Signing the Schedule: The couple, their two witnesses, and the registrars sign the marriage schedule.
What happens at a 2+2 Statutory Ceremony?
A recent 2+2 statutory ceremony witnessed by Katie (Editor) and her friend Fiona lasted 3 minutes and did not feel remotely wedding-like! The couple chose the shortest possible declaratory and contracting words and simply stated their full names. No rings were exchanged, and no personal vows were spoken, as they chose to save those meaningful moments entirely for Part Two: their celebrant-led ceremony.
Photography and background music were strictly prohibited. We entered the room at 11:59AM and departed at 12:02PM. The couple didn’t receive their certificate of marriage on the day, they were told they would be able to order it online once their marriage had been processed.
We snapped a few photos outside and the newlyweds went to grab a coffee, before going home to walk their dog.
10 Reasons to have a celebrant led wedding
Do not underestimate the immense creative freedom, mental relief, and joy that separating your legal administrative paperwork from your celebrant-led celebration brings to your wedding journey:
You choose the ceremony time: You aren't stuck with an undesirable council slot that forces your hair and makeup team to arrive at 5:00 AM or leaves your guests waiting around for hours before dinner.
You choose the location: You can get married anywhere - licensed venue, unlicensed venue, moors, farm, forest, beach, steam train, boat, sports ground, or even your own garden.
100% Bespoke Ceremony: The ceremony belongs entirely to you. No templates, it’s written completely from scratch, it contains your love story and it sounds and feels like a wedding, but yours!
You choose the music: You can have your music, whether it features explicit lyrics, religious themes, or unconventional melodies. Yes you can have Alex Warren’s Ordinary, or Ruelle’s I get to love you, no issue!
Immersive guest experience: Fun and laughter are warmly encouraged; your friends and family don't have to sit silently in rows, looking terrified.
No strangers: Standing at the front with a celebrant you know and trust calms your nervous system completely, allowing everyone to relax. You won’t feel as anxious, because there are no surprises or strangers, you are in total control.
Better photographs: Your photographer also relaxes, they know your ceremony can breathe, and they have free rein to move around the while space and your capture raw, authentic emotional reactions.
No conveyor belt: Your celebrant is dedicated exclusively to your day, meaning your ceremony is relaxed, paced beautifully, and completely unrushed. They don’t have to get to the next venue to read the same template to a different couple. They are there for you, not for the process.
Blending elements: We can make everyone feel seen and included by incorporating different faiths, spiritual beliefs, modern lifestyles, and unique family backgrounds.
Children and pets: Include your children with a naming ceremony or family vows. You could have your dog act as an official ring bearer, bark to give their blessing and put their inky paw-print on your commemorative certificate!
What Does a Celebrant Actually Do Behind the Scenes?
A professional wedding celebrant does significantly more than simply stand at the front of the aisle on your wedding day and talk for half an hour. The process begins months in advance through relaxed, collaborative planning sessions designed to uncover your love story and your relationship's true dynamic.
Your celebrant will dive deep into your history, learning how you met, your funniest shared memories, the stories your closest friends always tell, your favorite joint activities, what you respect most about each other, your proposal story, and your family dynamics. They use these personal insights to craft an original script from blank page, writing every sentence, story, and transition organically without relying on any standard templates.
What unique elements can you include during a celebrant ceremony?
Because there are no rigid legal rules binding a celebrant-led script, you can build your dream timeline using a mix of traditional, modern, or completely custom rituals:
Personal Vows & Promises: Share your feelings own words without limits or pre-approval. Share them in private, share the in front of your guests, it’s your ceremony.
The Ring Exchange: Exchange wedding rings, or have no rings - it’s your wedding!
Beautiful Unity Rituals: Incorporate historic or modern symbolic acts such as hand-fasting (tying the knot), a ring-warming ceremony, sand blending, or unity candle lighting. You could even have shots, drink whisky from a quaich or have San-San-Kudo sake ritual to represent luck, harmony and completeness.
Surprise Elements: Surprise your guests with surprise ring bearers, tape the ring boxes under random seats, or we could coordinate an interactive full-room singalong to an uplifting song, or primary school banger!
Summary:
Why Modern UK Couples Choose Celebrants
The core answer is incredibly simple: Freedom.
Choosing a celebrant allows you to marry exactly where you want, when you want, to tell your love story authentically, and involve the people who matter most. Laugh, cry happy tears, break outdated traditions, and start meaningful new ones.
Your wedding ceremony shouldn't be a generic, boring box-ticking exercise delivered by a stranger. It shouldn’t be the bit that guests yawn through before the welcome drinks reception. It is the emotional heartbeat of your entire wedding day and it sets the energy and tone for the rest of the day.
Long after the music fades, your guests won't remember the exact color of your chair sashes and if they matched the napkins, but they will always remember exactly how they felt during your celebrant-led ceremony.
And that moment deserves to feel absolutely unforgettable.
Katie x
Founder & Editor, Celebrant Led
Former Wedding Manager | Wedding Celebrant | Wedding Industry Commentator
Supplier Spotlight: Rebecca Anne Designs
Time to grab a cuppa, get comfy, and settle in for our latest Supplier Spotlight — our go-to space where we interview the nation's favourite wedding suppliers to bring you all the best tips, trends and insider advice for your big day.
In the hot seat today is Rebecca, founder of Rebecca Anne Designs - beautiful and bespoke, embroidered wedding veils.
Katie, Editor
Who is behind Rebecca Anne Designs?
Rebecca Stannett, photo by Kamila Nowak
Q: Katie: To kick things off, give us the quick headlines so our readers know exactly who you are and the magic you create!
A: I'm Rebecca, founder and designer of Rebecca Anne Designs. I design and make personalised embroidered wedding veils from my Devon studio, working one-to-one with brides to turn meaningful details into embroidery — handwriting, florals, dates, initials, symbols, places or words that hold personal meaning. Every veil is designed with intention, expertly embroidered in-house, and made to feel like more than an accessory. It becomes part of the bride's story. I also create embroidered wedding signage, including fabric welcome signs and other made-to-order pieces, for couples who want the same thoughtful, textile-led detail carried into the wider wedding setting.
Q: Katie: Where are you based, how far do you travel, and what are your favourite kinds of spaces to work with?
A: I'm based in Devon, but I work with brides across the UK and internationally through online consultations, so distance is rarely a barrier. As I'm not an on-the-day wedding supplier, my work is created in the studio and sent to the bride ahead of the wedding. In terms of spaces I love to see my veils in, I'm always drawn to elegant country houses, atmospheric castles, beautiful coastal settings and stylish city venues — spaces that feel considered and full of character, where the veil can move, catch the light and become part of the visual story of the day.
Behind the Designs
Photography credits: Kamila Nowak, Danielle Veitch
Q: Katie: How did you find your way into the wedding world, and what was the moment you realised this was your calling?
A: My background is in fashion design, and I've always loved the detail, emotion and storytelling that can live within clothing. I found my way into bridal through a love of veils and the moment they create. There is something incredibly powerful about seeing a bride put on a veil — it can completely change how she feels, and often becomes the moment when everything suddenly feels real. I realised I wanted to focus on veils because they hold such emotion, but also such creative possibility. Over time, embroidery became the perfect way for me to bring those stories into the fabric itself. Now, I see my work as translating a couple's love story into stitch.
Q: Katie: What is the core philosophy, style, and value system that defines your work today?
A: At the heart of Rebecca Anne Designs is the belief that wedding details should feel personal, intentional and beautifully made. My work is for brides who care about detail, sentiment and style in equal measure. The style of my work is modern romantic, story-led and refined — soft tulle, illustrative embroidery, delicate line work, thoughtful placement and designs full of movement. My values are care, originality and calm guidance. I believe the design process should feel supportive rather than overwhelming. A bride doesn't need to arrive knowing exactly what she wants. My role is to listen, guide and translate her ideas into something wearable.
Q: Katie: Describe your 'dream couple' — the people that make you instantly say, 'Yes, I absolutely need to work with them!'
A: My dream couples are thoughtful, sentimental and open to the design process. They care about how their wedding looks, of course, but they care even more about how it feels. My bride might want to include a flower connected to a family garden, a line of handwriting from someone they love, a hidden date, a symbol from their travels, or embroidery inspired by the setting of their wedding. They trust the process and understand that the most meaningful details are not always the most obvious ones.
Trends & Expert Secrets
Q: Katie: What is the most unique or wonderfully memorable wedding setup you've ever been a part of?
A: A veil that always stays with me is Caitlin's. Her veil incorporated artwork and handwriting by her late mum, which made the whole piece incredibly personal. It wasn't just decoration — it was a way of carrying someone she loved into the day through the embroidery itself. Those are the pieces that really remind me why I do this. A veil can be beautiful, but when it holds that kind of meaning, it becomes something far beyond an accessory.
Q: Katie: What exciting new patterns and directions are you noticing right now in your corner of the industry?
A: I'm seeing a beautiful shift towards meaningful personalisation, but in a much more refined way. Rather than adding every possible detail, brides are choosing one or two elements that hold real emotional weight. Handwriting embroidery continues to be incredibly popular, especially when it includes words from a loved one. Florals are becoming more illustrative and design-led — soft, organic and modern rather than overly traditional. I'm also seeing more interest in two-tier veils, mantilla-inspired shapes and the combination of lace with embroidery, and more couples thinking about textile details beyond what they wear.
Q: Katie: What would you love to see more UK couples embrace?
A: I would love to see more couples embrace deeply personal details without feeling that everything has to be obvious to every guest. Some of the most beautiful wedding details are the ones that only the couple, or their closest people, fully understand — a hidden motif, a private phrase, a flower with family meaning. I think the next big thing is couples becoming more confident in making choices that feel true to them, rather than creating a wedding for other people's expectations.
“A veil that always stays with me is Caitlin’s. Her veil incorporated artwork and handwriting by her late mum, which made the whole piece incredibly personal. It wasn’t just decoration — it was a way of carrying someone she loved into the day through the embroidery itself. Those are the pieces that really remind me why I do this. ”
Q: Katie: What insider advice would you give couples planning their wedding right now?
A: Think about your veil earlier than you think you need to. A veil is often seen as the final finishing touch, but if you're choosing something bespoke or personalised, it deserves to be considered as part of the full look. Your dress, hairstyle, venue, photography style and personal details can all influence the shape, length, placement and embroidery. You don't need to have all the answers at the beginning — a good designer will guide you. But allowing enough time means you have space to explore ideas calmly and create something that feels truly considered.
The Wedding Journey & Meaning
Q: Katie: When a couple books you, what does that journey look like from start to finish?
A: The journey usually begins with an enquiry or a design call, where we talk through the bride's ideas, dress, wedding setting and any meaningful details she might want to include. From there, I guide her through the options — veil length, shape, tiers, embroidery placement, wording, florals, thread colour and overall feeling. Once the direction is agreed, I create the artwork, digitise the embroidery and test stitch the design. The veil is then cut, embroidered in my Devon studio, hand finished and carefully checked before it leaves. Clear, kind communication is a huge part of the process — I always want brides to know what happens next and how their veil is progressing.
Q: Katie: What is one old-school wedding tradition or rule you're secretly glad modern couples are ditching?
A: I'm glad couples are moving away from the idea that they have to make choices simply because they are traditional. A veil doesn't have to be plain. It doesn't have to match everyone else's idea of bridal. It doesn't have to be chosen at the very end because it feels like an afterthought. Modern couples are realising that the most beautiful details are often the ones with meaning.
Q: Katie: When the wedding magic is done and you're off-the-clock, where can we find you?
A: When I'm not in the studio, you can usually find me on a walk, planning a trip, cooking with my husband Jeremy, or looking for somewhere beautiful to explore. I spend so much of my working life focused on tiny details, so I love anything that gives me space to breathe and reset.
Stalk Their Work
The best place to explore Rebecca's work:
Website: www.rebeccaannedesigns.co.uk
Instagram: @rebeccaannedesigns
Meet the Wedding Team:The Mansion
Liam Warburton - Cheeseman, Sales & Events Manager - The Mansion, Leeds
Liam Warburton-Cheeseman (Sales & Events Manager)
The Mansion, Roundhay Park, Leeds LS8 2HH
Get to know the teams behind the dream weddings and find out all of their best wedding secrets!
Photo Credit: Barnaby Aldrick
Capacities & Spaces
Q What are your maximum guest numbers for the ceremony and the wedding breakfast?
A For ceremonies we can host up to 220; for a wedding breakfast up to 134.
Q Do you offer both indoor and outdoor ceremony spaces?
A We have some wonderful indoor ceremony spaces- our Colonnades room has a spectacular view out over Roundhay Park. We're not able to host outdoor weddings unfortunately as we are in a public park.
Q Do you have on-site accommodation?
A No, despite being surrounded by 700 acres of parkland we are just 15 minutes from central Leeds - so there a selection of hotels just a short journey away.
Q Dog friendly?
A We allow dogs for Wedding Ceremonies and drinks receptions. However dogs and loud music are not a good mix, so we ask that dogs are taken home (or to their accommodation) before the wedding meal.
Venue Highlights
Q What is the one feature of your venue that couples always fall in love with?
A The Grand Staircase and Chandelier. The Staircase provides elegance for photos, bridal entrance, first look photos and the Chandelier, especially in Winter when the nights are darker and is illuminated in the couple colour scheme, offers a stunning contrast in colour and brings modern chic to a classic Georgian property.
The Pro Tips
Q What is your top piece of advice for couples planning their wedding?
A Prioritise what you want, not what will please the most people. This applies to food, drinks, décor, music. Your wedding is a reflection of who you are as a couple, a hybrid mix of what you both like, and not an exercise in satisfying the whims of all who are in attendance. Don't settle for chicken if you'd rather have lamb; don't opt for Abba if you're more of an AC/DC
Q What is the most 'genius' wedding planning move or cost-saver you’ve seen a couple pull off?
A I don't think it is genius but just couples providing things they can make themselves. Wedding cakes for example, can be super expensive, but a lot of cake at night does not get eaten and people only do a cake because it is "traditional" and expected. Family members providing centre pieces like flowers they've grown at home. We recently had a wedding that put pictures of the couple around the venue and next to them paintings of those pictures that the couple had done. My advice to all couples, is just make it personal to you. Traditions and expectations can get very expensive, very quickly.
Q If a couple has an entertainment budget, where in your opinion is it best spent for maximum impact?
A Live music will always be the winner for me, and garden games. Things that will keep people entertained and engaged during some of the long moments that don't involve everybody. For example, during the drinks reception and photos, people want something to keep them active. I also like entertainment for the night time, not so much saxophonists as these can be hit and miss but bands, big or small. Live music brings a different level of atmosphere for me. Live drawing/painters are fantastic too as you get something that you can keep forever!
“Prioritise what you want, not what will please the most people. This applies to food, drinks, décor, music. Your wedding is a reflection of who you are as a couple, a hybrid mix of what you both like, and not an exercise in satisfying the whims of all who are in attendance. Don’t settle for chicken if you’d rather have lamb; don’t opt for Abba if you’re more of an AC/DC ”
Style & Trends
Q Best aisle entrance song?
A Song Bird - this was the music my wife walked into the room to and she went to a recording studio and sang her own entrance music. I also love "I Get to Love You" by Ruelle, our first dance music
Q Best aisle exit song?
A Signed, Sealed, Delivered is a timeless classic, but I love something more like "Come and Get Your Love"
Q Favourite colour scheme?
A I know it is traditional nowadays and done a lot but I love sage green. The tables, the dresses. I also love bolder colours for Winter weddings, like Reds and Purples.
Q Favourite wedding cake flavour?
A Salted Caramel
Q What favours do guests actually keep?
A None! Edible ones are always well received. Scratch cards confuse me, what would you do if they won a lot of money?
Traditions
Q One 'Old' tradition you still love.
A The Cake cutting- a great tradition and a fabulous photo. I love it when the couple cut and eat a piece straight away.
Q One 'New' tradition you’re currently obsessed with?
A The mid aisle drop kiss shot. I love the photo it provides, with everybody around you and not just you standing at the front. All eyes are on you, including the person who is looking at the photo.
The Ceremony
Q Everyone working on the wedding floor loves a Celebrant Led wedding, why do you love them?
A The flexibility and bespoke nature of a celebrant wedding makes it so much more personal. Sometimes a registrar led wedding feels too much like a tick box exercise and doesn't have the couple at the heart of the ceremony, whereas a celebrant led wedding does. They take the time to get to know the couple and deliver something so much more magical and memorable.
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We choose to spotlight these brilliant businesses to champion the wonderful, hardworking wedding teams who embrace the freedom of celebrant-led ceremonies, ensuring every couple's day is completely flawless.
Katie x
Supplier Spotlight: DJ Mark Green
Time to grab a cuppa, get comfy, and settle in for our latest Supplier Spotlight. This is our go-to space where we interview the nation's favourite wedding suppliers to get you all the best styling tips, hacks, and insider advice for your big day.
In the hot seat today is DJ Mark Green
Katie, Editor
Meet
Q: Katie: To kick things off, give us the quick headlines so our readers know exactly who you are and the magic you create!
A: I’m DJ Mark Green. Professional events DJ catering for prestigious weddings, corporate and sporting event.
DJ Mark Green in action!
Q: Katie: Where are you based, how far do you love to travel, and what are your favourite kinds of spaces to work with?
A: I’m based in Harrogate but I perform all over the UK. It’s hard to put a finger on my favourite spot for a wedding… far too many beautiful places to choose from. I do spend a lot of time travelling between Middleton Lodge, Tithe Barn - Bolton Abbey & Riverlands in East Yorkshire. Lots of love for all 3 of these!
I’ve been DJing for the best part of 30 years. In the early days I spent quite a few years performing overseas in multiple places across the Mediterranean. That was definitely my training ground.
Behind the Designs
Q: Katie: Let’s start right at the beginning! How did you find your way into the wedding world, and what was that exact moment you realised this was your calling?
A: There wasn’t really a life plan back then and weddings weren’t a thing I’d ever considered. My first taste of a came to me nearly 20yrs ago via a friend. He was getting married near Newcastle and asked if I could take care of his evening music. I jumped at the opportunity and haven’t looked back since… it was loads of fun.
I then spent a few years in bars and clubs, dabbling in the odd wedding, part and corporate event.
Around 2014, the workload between my day job and DJing was too much… something had to give. I handed in my notice at work and took the plunge and became a full time DJ. I haven’t looked back since.
Q: Katie: Every business has its own distinct personality. What is the core philosophy, style, and value system that defines your work today?
A: My couples and clients are at the core of everything I do. Pulling on my skill set, experience and expertise, I work closely with clients to deliver the exact vibe they desire form their special event. Once the planning and prep is nailed… it’s time to party and I love it. I don’t ever see myself as a supplier, more an extended guest. I love bouncing around to good vibes and I always bring the energy.
“Think carefully if your wedding venue has a 1am music cut off licence… you don’t need to go all the way. I see lots of parties fizzle out after midnight because the guest are absolutely shattered and physically can’t carry on. Plan your evening timings carefully and finish on a big high with all of your friends and family present.”
Q: Katie: Let’s talk about your ‘dream couple’. Describe the people that make you instantly say, "Yes, I absolutely need to work with them!"
A: I love the variety of events I do and the different people I work with. That keeps things fresh, challenging and exciting for me.
Trends & Expert Secrets
Q: Katie: What is the most unique, unconventional, or wonderfully memorable wedding setup you’ve ever been a part of?
A: Obviously not mentioning names or location. I once did a large garden wedding that was more like an illegal rave. It was complete carnage and I spent the whole day on edge looking out for police cars coming down the driveway. I remember laughing to myself all the way home. I didn’t think I was going to get away with all my equipment in one piece - it was mental.
Q: Katie: The wedding world is always evolving. What exciting new patterns, directions, or details are you noticing right now in your brilliant corner of the industry?
A: No surprise here, but TikTok trends are certainly driving couples decisions.
Q: Katie: If you could predict the 'next big thing' or share one thing you’d love to see more UK couples embrace, what would it be?
A: People are regularly looking to recreate moments in videos they’ve seen. Aisle walk tracks, first dances, mixing styles etc…
Q: Katie: For couples currently planning their wedding, what insider secret or piece of advice would you give them from your area of expertise?
A: Think carefully if your wedding venue has a 1am music cut off licence… you don’t need to go all the way. I see lots of parties fizzle out after midnight because the guest are absolutely shattered and physically can’t carry on. Plan your evening timings carefully and finish on a big high with all of your friends and family present.
The Wedding Journey & Meaning
Q: Katie: When a couple books you, what does that journey look like from start to finish? How do you make sure they feel completely looked after?
A: My booking process is all automated and completely stress free. From first enquiry to delivery, I love to be responsive. Holding couples hands and guiding them through the whole journey. I’m contactable every day of the week. I love offering my advice and answering questions to ensure we get the desired outcome on the day.
Q: Katie: We are seeing a gorgeous shift away from 'perfect-for-Instagram' weddings toward deeply meaningful days. What is one old-school wedding tradition or rule you are secretly glad modern couples are ditching?
A: I’ve noticed a few couples recently ditching speeches and their first dance. It totally cool with me if that’s what they want, however it’s always nice to keep some traditions as the flow is tried and tested and works really well.
Q: Katie: When the wedding magic is done and you’re finally off-the-clock, where can we usually find you and how do you like to unwind?
A: I’m normally sleeping or running around after my 3 kids… lol
Stalk Their Work
Where can couples find you?
Definitely check out my Instagram. I try and use it as a story of my work, and post from nearly all the events I do (unless there’s an NDA involved lol).
Instagram DJ Mark Green
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Katie Flanagan Wedding Celebrant (Copy)
Katie Flanagan James Places’ recommended celebrant, in action at Falcon Manor, Settle.
Katie Flanagan - Independent Celebrant
Expertise: Former Wedding Manager | Wedding Industry Expert | Editor of Celebrant Led
Values: Inclusive | Sustainable | Reliable
Vibe: Warm, fun and friendly… if Jane McDonald did weddings!
Superpower: I know weddings inside out, you and your wedding are in very safe hands.
Training: International College of Professional Celebrants
Location: Yorkshire, Lancashire, Cumbria + Destination
Fee: 2027 £995 | 2028 £1095
Venue Favourites: Wennington Hall, Grantley Hall, Falcon Manor, Eaves Hall, Denton Reserve, Ponden Mill Weddings, Holmes Mill, The Tempest Arms, Broughton Hall, Riversdale Park, Eight at Gazegill, The Tithe Barn, The Devonshire Arms
Master Storyteller
Let’s be honest: nobody wants a wedding where the guests are staring at their watches, wondering when the fun bit starts. I’m an ICPC trained Independent Celebrant, and with my background as a luxury Wedding Manager, I know weddings inside out!
I don't do templates, and I certainly don't do boring. I take your vibe, values, personalities and love story, I edit out the fluff, and deliver the most important scene of your life with heart and soul.
The Full Main Character Experience
Working across Yorkshire, Lancashire, Cumbria, and beyond. I’ll write a bespoke ceremony from scratch that sounds and feels exactly like you, I manage the energy of the room, and weave your love story into a modern celebration where you two get the main character energy.
Expect happy tears, laughter, and the peace of mind that comes from having a wedding pro at the helm.
The Expert Script Writing Service
Have you asked a friend or family member to officiate, only to realise they’re now waking up in a cold sweat and considering spending thousands of pounds on celebrancy training? Don't let them wing it.
As a freelance wedding writer, I’ll craft the entire ceremony for you. I’ll provide the bespoke ceremony, the flow, and the vital prompts that us wedding professional know, so your bestie can deliver the goods without the panic.
Katie is also the Editor in Chief of Celebrant Led, where she freely shares her extensive wedding knowledge and showcases the best suppliers and venues for modern, celebrant led weddings.
What couples say…
“⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Katie was nothing short of perfect. From the very beginning she took the time to truly get to know us, not just our story but who we are as people, and somehow turned that into the most beautiful, heartfelt ceremony we could ever have imagined. She told our love story in a way that was magical, personal, and so us that it felt like she had known us our whole lives. Every single guest told us how special and unique it was, and many were moved to tears. Katie’s warmth, kindness and talent made the heart of our wedding day unforgettable. We will treasure those words forever. I could not recommend her more highly. She does not just create ceremonies, she creates memories you will hold in your heart for a lifetime. ”
“⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ The biggest THANK YOU!!
We were lucky enough to have Katie marry us two weeks ago, and from the very beginning she was absolutely amazing. She took the time to really get to know us, even coming to our home, and created a ceremony that was so personal and meaningful. She beautifully included our daughter, told our love story in such a special way, and made sure every single detail was perfect.
The ceremony was more incredible than we could have ever imagined – heartfelt, relaxed, and completely us. We honestly couldn’t have wished for anything better. Choosing a celebrant-led ceremony was the best decision we made, and we’re so grateful to Katie for giving us memories we’ll treasure forever. Thank you!
The Barstows 💕”
“⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Katie was absolutely wonderful she not only wrote us a beautiful and special ceremony but she helped us make sure the day ran smoothly, supported our planning, helped keep us calm and content and made us feel so at ease. Everyone complimented our ceremony and we completely know why. It was perfect. I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend Katie to anyone looking for a personalised ceremony. ”
Supplier Spotlight: Sugared Almonds Bridal Boutique
Time to grab a cuppa, get comfy, and settle in for our latest Supplier Spotlight. This is our go-to space where we interview the nation's favourite wedding suppliers to get you all the best styling tips, hacks, and insider advice for your big day.
In the hot seat today are the Mum and Daughter team who run Sugared Almonds Bridal Emporium in Earby, Barnoldswick, Lancashire.
Katie, Editor
Meet
Q: Katie: To kick things off, give us the quick headlines so our readers know exactly who you are and the magic you create!
A: Sugared Almonds Bridal Boutique
Photograph credits: Jasmine Paige’s Photography, Lily North Photography, Lune and Valley Photography
Q: Katie: Where are you based, how far do you love to travel, and what are your favourite kinds of spaces to work with?
A: Our boutique is based in Earby, Lancashire
Behind the Designs
Q: Katie: Let’s start right at the beginning! How did you find your way into the wedding world, and what was that exact moment you realised this was your calling?
A: My mum and I bought Sugared Almonds Bridal in February 2007. She had always dreamed of working in the bridal industry and because we both shared a love of sewing, fashion and all things feminine, it felt like the perfect fit for us.
Q: Katie: Every business has its own distinct personality. What is the core philosophy, style, and value system that defines your work today?
A: From the moment I started, I completely fell in love with bridal everything from the dresses and styling to helping each bride create her perfect look. I love being part of such a special moment and journey.
At Sugared Almonds Bridal, we believe in simply being ourselves warm, welcoming and genuinely caring. We take the time to really listen to each bride, understand her vision and make sure she feels comfortable and supported every step of the way. We never believe in pressure or rushing decisions finding your wedding dress should feel relaxed, exciting and truly enjoyable. Over the years, we’ve been lucky to build wonderful friendships with so many of our brides and being part of such a special time in their lives is something we never take for granted. Our aim is for every bride to feel at ease, enjoy the experience and leave feeling excited, confident and completely herself.
“We take the time to really listen to each bride, understand her vision and make sure she feels comfortable and supported every step of the way. We never believe in pressure or rushing decisions finding your wedding dress should feel relaxed, exciting and truly enjoyable. ”
Q: Katie: Let’s talk about your ‘dream couple’. Describe the people that make you instantly say, "Yes, I absolutely need to work with them!"
A: We can usually tell as soon as a bride walks through the door and we get to know them that we’d love them to become one of our brides. They’re full of genuine excitement and bring such a lovely energy with them. They’re down to earth, kind and clearly really happy to be in this stage of life. We can often tell straight away from their story they’re laughing, chatting about their wedding day plans and just soaking it all in.
We love brides who don’t take things too seriously, who are open to enjoying the experience and who trust us to help guide them in finding their dream gown. The ones who value connection, good energy and a relaxed journey over pressure or simply doing what everyone else is doing. They’re not trying to tick boxes they just want a day that feels meaningful and true to them. Those are always the brides we instantly connect with and think, “Yes, we want to be part of this special journey with them,” from finding their dress right through to fittings, alterations, and everything in between and after.
Trends & Expert Secrets
Q: Katie: What is the most unique, unconventional, or wonderfully memorable wedding setup you’ve ever been a part of?
A: We’ve had so many amazing weddings over the years. One of our brides got married in an igloo in Iceland, another is flying out to Utah this week for her wedding and we’ve had weddings in Disney World, New York and even on a boat. We’ve also had a really special surprise wedding, where everyone thought they were attending her daughter’s christening, but she was actually getting married at the same time and no one knew.
Q: Katie: The wedding world is always evolving. What exciting new patterns, directions, or details are you noticing right now in your brilliant corner of the industry?
A: We especially love the more intimate weddings and elopements there’s something so personal, romantic and meaningful about them that makes them really special to be part of.
Brides are now often choosing two dresses for their wedding day one real show stopping gown for the ceremony and a second dress that’s lighter and easier to wear so they can relax and fully enjoy the party and dancing later on.
We’re also seeing a lot more brides choosing black wedding dresses, along with other coloured dresses which we absolutely love. Couples are focusing more on creating a wedding that truly reflects them, rather than sticking to tradition and we think that’s exactly how it should be.
Q: Katie: If you could predict the 'next big thing' or share one thing you’d love to see more UK couples embrace, what would it be?
A: If we could see one thing continue to grow, it would be individuality couples feeling confident doing their own thing without worrying about traditions or expectations. Whether that’s in the style of their wedding dress, their overall look, or how they choose to celebrate the day, we love seeing people make choices that truly reflect who they are rather than following what’s “expected.”
Q: Katie: For couples currently planning their wedding, what insider secret or piece of advice would you give them from your area of expertise?
A: The biggest piece of advice we always give brides is to choose a wedding dress that feels like you. It’s so easy to get caught up in opinions, trends, or what you think you should be wearing, but the most special dresses are always the ones that feel authentic and true to your personality.
Trust how you feel when you put a gown on when it’s the right dress, you’ll just know. You’ll feel comfortable, confident and like the very best version of yourself.
Enjoy the process, don’t put too much pressure on yourself and try to keep it fun. Finding your wedding dress should feel exciting and emotional in the best way and the right one will always stand out for all the right reasons.
The Wedding Journey & Meaning
Q: Katie: When a couple books you, what does that journey look like from start to finish? How do you make sure they feel completely looked after?
A: A bride will first book a bridal appointment with us, where we hope to help her find her dream dress. We always celebrate that moment with her, because it’s such a special part of the journey and from there we help her personalise her look and style it with the accessories she loves to really bring her vision to life.
We have our in-house seamstress who carries out all of the alterations, ensuring the dress is tailored perfectly and feels completely her own. It becomes a truly personal gown, made to fit her beautifully and reflect exactly how she wants to feel on her wedding day. We can also carry out alterations for bridesmaids, mothers of the bride and groomsmen to ensure the whole wedding party looks and feels their best. Throughout the whole journey, we’re always contactable for any questions, advice, or reassurance when needed.
Before collection, we carefully steam the dress, veil and sometimes bridesmaid dresses too, so everything is ready for the wedding week. After the wedding, many brides also bring their dresses back to us to be professionally cleaned and boxed as a special keepsake from their day. We absolutely love this part of the journey, especially when brides come back to share their wedding photos and tell us all about their day it’s such a lovely way to stay connected even after the wedding is over.
Q: Katie: We are seeing a gorgeous shift away from 'perfect-for-Instagram' weddings toward deeply meaningful days. What is one old-school wedding tradition or rule you are secretly glad modern couples are ditching?
A: We love that couples are now choosing to have the wedding they truly want, rather than what’s traditionally expected. Every wedding feels so different and personal and I think that’s what makes them so special.
Q: Katie: When the wedding magic is done and you’re finally off-the-clock, where can we usually find you and how do you like to unwind?
A: When I’m not working you will usually find me at home with my family. I’m very much a homebody at heart, so I love nothing more than slowing down and enjoying time with my children.
My days off are pretty simple taxiing the kids around, walking the dogs and just being at home. That’s really where I recharge, just having those quiet, normal moments after all the excitement of weddings. Even on my days off though, my mind is still very much on my brides and I’m always thinking about those who are getting married that day and hoping everything is going perfectly for them.
Stalk Their Work
Where to find
The best place for couples to find us online is on our social media where we share our real brides, new arrivals and behind the scenes moments in the boutique. It’s a lovely way to get a feel for our style and the kind of experience we offer.
Instagram - Sugared Almonds Bridal Boutique
Our website is the best place to book an appointment with us and start your dress journey. You can also contact us through any of our channels if you have any questions at all we’re always happy to help, whether you’re just having a browse or ready to begin the search for your dream gown.
Website - Sugared Almonds Bridal Boutique
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Supplier Spotlight: Oscar Flanagan Music
Time to grab a cuppa, get comfy, and settle in for our latest Supplier Spotlight. This is our go-to space where we interview the nation's favourite wedding suppliers to get you all the best styling tips, hacks, and insider advice for your big day.
In the hot seat today is the very talented Oscar Flanagan, we work together frequently as Wedding Musician and Celebrant, the eagled eyed may have noticed we share the same last name… Yes, I’m his Mum (and his unofficial roadie)!
Oscar is a singer, guitarist, pianist, songwriter, producer and a BBC Introducing Artist.
Katie, Editor
Oscar Flanagan tuning up at Eaves Hall, Clitheroe
Meet Oscar Flanagan
Q: Katie: To kick things off, give us the quick headlines so our readers know exactly who you are and the magic you create!
A: I’m Oscar Flanagan, Weddings & Events Singer and Acoustic Guitarist
Q: Katie: Where are you based, how far do you love to travel, and what are your favourite kinds of spaces to work with?
A: I’m based in Skipton, North Yorkshire and also very close to the border of East Lancashire. 50 miles of travel is included within each booking, but I'm happy to travel wherever you need me. My favourite venues are: The Tipis At Riley Green, Holmes Mill - the Cotton Room acoustics are incredible, Falcon Manor, Wennington Hall and Eaves Hall.
Photography by: Matt Hetherinton
Behind the Designs
Q: Katie: Let’s start right at the beginning! How did you find your way into the wedding world, and what was that exact moment you realised this was your calling?
A: I got into the wedding industry through my mum, Katie Flanagan, editor at Celebrant Led, who used to work as a the wedding manager at a busy venue. When I was 16, she invited me along to play at a wedding fair and encouraged me to get involved in the industry. I started performing at weddings shortly after that and instantly loved the atmosphere, the people, and being part of such an important day in someone’s life. Four years on, I’ve been performing at weddings consistently and have built up experience creating live music moments that feel personal, relaxed and memorable for every couple.
Q: Katie: Every business has its own distinct personality. What is the core philosophy, style, and value system that defines your work today?
A: I’m all about creating a wedding atmosphere that feels relaxed, personal and genuinely fun. Live music has such a huge impact on the energy of a day, and my goal is always to make moments feel natural rather than staged. Whether it’s an emotional aisle song, laid-back drinks music or a packed dancefloor singalong, I want guests to feel completely present in the moment.
My style is modern, acoustic-led pop, mixing timeless classics with current songs people actually love singing along to. Couples often describe me as easy-going, professional and adaptable, and I think that comes from understanding that every wedding is different. No copy-and-paste playlists, no awkward wedding singer clichés, just great live music tailored to the people in front of me. Above everything, I value reliability, good communication and making the whole experience stress-free for couples from the first enquiry to the first dance.
“I’ve played at registrar led and celebrant led ceremonies and the rigid, registrar-led ceremony that can feel more like a pressured exam than a celebration. More and more couples are moving toward celebrant-led weddings, and it makes such a difference. Suddenly the whole ceremony is built around them, their story, their personalities. The room relaxes, the emotion is real, and honestly the music hits completely differently when everyone in the room feels like they’re part of something personal rather than just watching a formal procedure.”
Q: Katie: Let’s talk about your ‘dream couple’. Describe the people that make you instantly say, "Yes, I absolutely need to work with them!"
A: My dream couples are the ones who want both sides of live wedding music, the intimate moments and the big atmosphere. I love working with couples who want that emotional, personal feeling of walking down the aisle to their song performed live and acoustically, creating a moment that feels completely unique to them.
But I also love couples who want the energy to lift straight after the ceremony, turning the drinks reception into a fun, upbeat atmosphere where guests are singing along, dancing, and properly enjoying themselves from the very start of the day. For me, the best weddings balance emotion and energy perfectly, and I love being part of both.
Trends & Expert Secrets
Q: Katie: What is the most unique, unconventional, or wonderfully memorable wedding setup you’ve ever been a part of?
A: One moment that really stands out happened at the Coniston Hotel. I was playing Hallelujah as the bride walked down the aisle, and the emotion in the room was something else, the whole room was in tears before she’d even made it in. She actually had to wait outside for a moment to compose herself, so I did something you simply can’t do with a playlist: I extended the song, looping back through the verse and chorus to give her the time she needed. When she finally walked in it was perfect timing. That’s the thing about live music, it breathes and responds to the moment in a way nothing pre-recorded ever could.
Q: Katie: The wedding world is always evolving. What exciting new patterns, directions, or details are you noticing right now in your brilliant corner of the industry?
A: Couples are increasingly asking for really personal, specific song choices rather than the classic wedding staples, tracks that mean something to them as a couple, sometimes quite unexpected genres, and they want them stripped back and done in a way that feels intimate rather than performative.
Q: Katie: If you could predict the 'next big thing' or share one thing you’d love to see more UK couples embrace, what would it be?
A: Longer acoustic sets during the cocktail hour, that window between the wedding breakfast and the evening do. It’s such an underused part of the day and a live acoustic guitarist filling that space creates something really special, relaxed, warm, and memorable in a way a playlist simply can’t replicate.
Q: Katie: For couples currently planning their wedding, what insider secret or piece of advice would you give them from your area of expertise?
A: Don’t underestimate the power of the music during your ceremony. Most couples spend months deciding on flowers and table settings, but leave the music as an afterthought. Those few songs: your aisle entrance, the signing, your aisle exit, are the moments everyone will remember feeling something. Talk to your musician early, be specific about what those songs mean to you, and don’t just default to the obvious choices if they’re not really you.
The Wedding Journey & Meaning
Q: Katie: When a couple books you, what does that journey look like from start to finish? How do you make sure they feel completely looked after?
A: Once a couple enquires I like to keep things really simple and personal. We have a conversation, whether that’s over email or a call, where I get to understand what their day looks and feels like and what music matters to them. From there I send across all the details they need clearly, with no stress. As the wedding gets closer we check back in, confirm the setlist for the ceremony, and I make sure every song they want is ready exactly as they’d hope. On the day, I arrive early, set up quietly, and handle everything myself so they don’t have to think about it at all.
Q: Katie: We are seeing a gorgeous shift away from 'perfect-for-Instagram' weddings toward deeply meaningful days. What is one old-school wedding tradition or rule you are secretly glad modern couples are ditching?
A: I’ve played at registrar led and celebrant led ceremonies and the rigid, registrar-led ceremony that can feel more like a pressured exam than a celebration. More and more couples are moving toward celebrant-led weddings, and it makes such a difference. Suddenly the whole ceremony is built around them, their story, their personalities. The room relaxes, the emotion is real, and honestly the music hits completely differently when everyone in the room feels like they’re part of something personal rather than just watching a formal procedure.
Q: Katie: When the wedding magic is done and you’re finally off-the-clock, where can we usually find you and how do you like to unwind?
A: Honestly, you’ll probably find me at another gig. When I’m not playing weddings, I’m out doing live performances across Yorkshire, Lancashire, Manchester and the North West, it’s just what I love doing. Music is never really work to me, so unwinding and doing what I enjoy is a dream.
Stalk Their Work
Where to find
Oscar has some brilliant blog posts on his website including his guide to the best aisle entrance and aisle exit songs.
Pricing is transparent and you can get in touch to check date availability. https://www.oscarflanagan.com
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Supplier Spotlight: Nessworthy Pictures
Time to grab a cuppa, get comfy, and settle in for our latest Supplier Spotlight. This is our go-to space where we interview the nation's favourite wedding suppliers to get you all the best tips, inspo and insider secrets for your big day.
In the hot seat today is the fabulous Bill Nessworthy, founder of Nessworthy Pictures.
Katie, Editor
Meet Bill Nessworthy
Q: Katie: To kick things off, give us the quick headlines so our readers know exactly who you are and the magic you create!
A: I'm Bill Nessworthy, I run Nessworthy Pictures, offering photography and video with a relaxed, candid vibe
Q: Katie: Where are you based, how far do you love to travel, and what are your favourite kinds of spaces to work with?
A: I'm based on the Fylde coast but travel all over the Northwest, from Liverpool to the Lakes.
Behind the Designs
Q: Katie: Let’s start right at the beginning! How did you find your way into the wedding world, and what was that exact moment you realised this was your calling?
A: Around 2015 my friend Robin May asked if I would like to second for him at a wedding. He showed me the ropes and after working with him on a few dates I was hooked. I found that I loved shooting candid moments, finding creative angles, and making art out of a day where people are there to just enjoy themselves. It's also such an honour to be the one to capture some of the happy couple's biggest memories.
Q: Katie: Every business has its own distinct personality. What is the core philosophy, style, and value system that defines your work today?
A: My core philosophy is to strike a balance between curated, posed editorial images and genuine documentary moments. Some parts of the day suit a purely documentary approach, whereas others come out better in the images with a little guidance. Couples expect a little bit of guidance, they just don't want you to be bossing them around all day. I want my couples to feel relaxed and know that I'm getting the images my portfolio promises.
“I love that many couples are now customising their ceremonies, adding fun to the formality, and making it their own. Some of my favourite weddings have been celebrant led.”
Q: Katie: Let’s talk about your ‘dream couple’. Describe the people that make you instantly say, "Yes, I absolutely need to work with them!"
A: My dream couples are the ones who don't worry about the photography too much, and trust me to deliver a gallery of stunning images that tells the story of their day. Also, I'm actually in a rock band for fun, so I love it when couples are fans of similar bands too.
Trends & Expert Secrets
Q: Katie: What is the most unique, unconventional, or wonderfully memorable wedding setup you’ve ever been a part of?
A: It's the small things for me. The couple who got married at a brewery and had a Penguin Books theme at the wedding breakfast. Or the couple who had their favourite Talking Heads song for the first dance, rather than Ed Sheeran (no offence). The brides with black dresses, floral dresses, rainbow dresses. I've seen some wonderful things in ten years of weddings.
Q: Katie: The wedding world is always evolving. What exciting new patterns, directions, or details are you noticing right now in your brilliant corner of the industry?
A: It's the couples who bend tradition a little and do their own thing, letting their personalities shine through, yet the event still feels like a beautiful wedding.
Q: Katie: If you could predict the 'next big thing' or share one thing you’d love to see more UK couples embrace, what would it be?
A: Authenticity. With AI, people are growing weary of generated images already. But also, I'm hoping more couples go for printed albums and pictures to hang on the wall now, letting their photos live in the real world and not just on Instagram.
Q: Katie: For couples currently planning their wedding, what insider secret or piece of advice would you give them from your area of expertise?
A: I'd say trust your photographer. You don't need to send them a mood board. You are better off picking a photographer whose portfolio contains what you would pick for a mood board.
The Wedding Journey & Meaning
Q: Katie: When a couple books you, what does that journey look like from start to finish? How do you make sure they feel completely looked after?
A: I like to chat to couples over the phone as soon as possible, not to sell to them, but to show the genuine person behind the brand and get to know them a little and ask about their wedding plans, and what they are looking for in a photographer.
Q: Katie: We are seeing a gorgeous shift away from 'perfect-for-Instagram' weddings toward deeply meaningful days. What is one old-school wedding tradition or rule you are secretly glad modern couples are ditching?
A: I love that many couples are now customising their ceremonies, adding fun to the formality, and making it their own. Some of my favourite weddings have been celebrant led.
Q: Katie: When the wedding magic is done and you’re finally off-the-clock, where can we usually find you and how do you like to unwind?
A: I like to unwind with music, listening to records, or writing and playing with my band, aptly called Regular Breaks. We put out our debut single a few weeks ago, called 'Nostos' on Spotify, Amazon, etc.
Editor's Note: This is a naturally curated editorial feature showcasing our favourite independent wedding suppliers. This is not a sponsored or paid post.
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Meet the Wedding Team: Elsworth at the Mill
Rebecca & Bruce Elsworth - Co Owners
Hollie Igoe - Wedding Coordinator
High Corn Mill, Chapel Hill, Skipton, North Yorkshire, BD23 1NL
Get to know the teams behind the dream weddings and find out all of their best wedding secrets!
The Team: Hollie Igoe (Wedding Coordinator) Bruce & Rebecca Elsworth (Co owners)
Capacities & Spaces
Q What are your maximum guest numbers for the ceremony and the wedding breakfast?
A Ceremony up to 70, Wedding breakfast A la Carte 64, Street Food Buffet up to 80, Evening up to 80.
Q Do you offer both indoor and outdoor ceremony spaces?
A Indoor only
Q Do you have on-site accommodation?
A The venue is surrounded by local accommodation from Hotels, Guest Houses and Holiday lets the closest one being Eller Beck directly below the venue.
Q Dog friendly?
A Small well behaved dogs are allowed.
Photo credits: Georgie Beck, Jacqueline Louise Photography
Venue Highlights
Q What is the vibe of your venue?
A Relaxed, historic, bespoke - Simple, characterful and thoughtfully put together.
Q What is the one feature of your venue that couples always fall in love with?
A The high beamed ceiling, the exposed Yorkshire stone walls and the fact the venue doesn't need much dressing, a few simple runners on the table along with bud vases and candles and the space is wedding ready.
The Pro Tips
Q What is your top piece of advice for couples planning their wedding?
A Make your day feel like yours, don't follow a trend if it's not a reflection of you. Concentrate on bringing your nearest & dearest together to celebrate your special day. No one will remember if the timings run exact or if you had the latest trend but they will remember how it felt.
Q What is the most 'genius' wedding planning move or cost-saver you’ve seen a couple pull off?
A The best cost saver is keeping it smaller, some of the best days here have been planned at the last minute and are beautiful, simple, intimate gatherings where everything happens in one place: ceremony, food, drinks, dancing. No transport, no long gaps, no extras for the sake of it. Just good food, the right people and the best atmosphere.
Q If a couple has an entertainment budget, where in your opinion is it best spent for maximum impact?
A I would say a DJ/ live music we love DJ Wiggy or Sarah Widdup, they can really set the tone, especially if you love a bit of a dance or if you would like more on the entertaining side we would highly recommend a magician, We love Magic by Mark Waddington, this really does bring people together and gets them talking.
“Make your day feel like yours, don’t follow a trend if it’s not a reflection of you. Concentrate on bringing your nearest & dearest together to celebrate your special day. No one will remember if the timings run exact or if you had the latest trend but they will remember how it felt.”
Style & Trends
Q Best aisle entrance song?
A An acoustic version of Simply The Best.
Q Best aisle exit song?
A Everywhere, Fleetwood Mac
Q Favourite colour scheme?
A A gorgeous mix of bright colours
Q Favourite wedding cake flavour?
A It has to be a vanilla sponge with berry jam and meringue buttercream, classic & delicious especially from our trusted supplier baked by Emma Lawson.
Q What favours do guests actually keep?
A We recently held a Japanese themed wedding and all the guests had traditional fans as favours, these are the types of things people will keep and cherish.
Traditions
Q One 'Old' tradition you still love.
A Speeches that actually mean something, not over rehearsed, not too many, just a few people standing up and saying something with meaning.
Q One 'New' tradition you’re currently obsessed with?
A Dropping the wedding rule book, Late ceremonies, shared aisles, no formal sides and couples arriving together. Keeping your day personal to you.
The Ceremony
Q Everyone working on the wedding floor loves a Celebrant Led wedding, why do you love them?
A We absolutely love a celebrant led wedding, its personal, its tells a story, its moving, its everything!
You can find out more about the Elsworth at the Mill Team by clicking here
“Editors note: These aren’t paid-for features or affiliate links. I choose to spotlight these brilliant businesses to champion the wonderful, hardworking wedding teams who embrace the freedom of celebrant-led ceremonies, ensuring every couple’s day is completely flawless.”
Spilling the Dales' Best-Kept Secret: Why the Brand-New Samuel Suite is the Ultimate Yorkshire Mini-Moon
The beautiful Samuel Suite, private hot tub and patio -photography by Becki Dakin
Are you currently drowning in a sea of wedding seating plans, table seating plans, and endlessly chasing the RSVP’s? Or perhaps the confetti has finally settled, the big day is over, and you’ve suddenly been hit by that notoriously heavy wave of post-wedding blues?
Dr Celebrant Led here… and we have just the medicine for you!
There is a distinct, beautiful moment on the scenic drive into Malhamdale where the heavy static of modern life completely melts away. It usually happens just as you turn off the A65, right about halfway between the vibrant Yorkshire Dales market towns of Skipton and Settle. The drystone walls tighten, the rolling green fells rise up to meet the sky, and the only sound is yours as you exhale!
For couples navigating the intense whirlwind of marriage, finding an unspoiled, intentional space to truly breathe is everything. Whether you are looking for an essential pre-wedding chill session, an incredibly romantic Yorkshire Dales mini-moon, or a luxury 'thank you' gift for parents who have been your absolute rock, we have found your ultimate sanctuary.
Welcome to Green Grove Country House in the idyllic hamlet of Bell Busk. Perfectly nestled in Malhamdale, it sits right on the doorstep of the iconic Malham Cove, offering a quiet, boutique stay that feels a million miles away from the rest of the world.
We’re talking C4 'Four in a Bed' Overpayment standard!
If you've ever watched Channel 4's Four in a Bed, you know exactly the kind of place we mean. Green Grove is that rare, flawless establishment where even the most hyper-critical, dust-hunting boutique hotel owners would be left utterly speechless. It is the kind of place that would generate a massive, legendary overpayment on the show, hands down.
Boasting a staggering 9.8 out of 10 on Booking.com and a 4.9 out of 5-star Google rating, this hidden gem defines what it means to be immaculately clean. The entire property is pristine, sparkling, and deeply loved. But what truly sets it apart is that Zoe and Keith have genuinely thought of everything. They anticipate the tiny, thoughtful details before you even realise you need them, from beautifully curated welcome trays with fresh treats adjusted to your exact dietary needs, to fresh milk waiting in your fridge.
As one thrilled guest shared on their review:
“This is the best B&B we have ever stayed in. They thought of everything—even a torch is provided for dark walks! The accommodation is immaculate, with clean, crisp cotton sheets, fluffy towels, and such attention to detail.”
The Master Builder’s Masterpiece: Pure, Private Luxury Inside the Samuel Suite
Green Grove Country House - The Gallery - photography by Becki Dakin
While Green Grove has long been a beloved secret for walkers and romantics, Keith—a master builder by trade—has poured his heart, soul, and incredible craftsmanship into their crowning achievement: The Samuel Suite. This is a brand-new, completely bespoke luxury build that completely redefines the Dales mini-moon experience.
Designed specifically as a self-contained sanctuary for couples wanting a high-spec, uninterrupted escape, the level of care here is breathtaking. The layout is incredibly generous, featuring a gorgeous, plush lounge area made for long, intimate chats, and a sumptuous bedroom anchored by a magnificent Ambassador bed dressed in crisp, premium linens that guarantee the best sleep of your life. The sleek, modern ensuite bathroom is equally stunning, boasting a massive, high-end walk-in shower, heated towel rails, and luxury finishes.
But the true showstopper—the part that will make you completely fall in love—awaits just outside your glass doors. The Samuel Suite boasts its own entirely private, sun-drenched terrace complete with a sparkling hot tub exclusive to the suite.
Positioned perfectly to drink in the panoramic, unspoiled views of the rolling Yorkshire countryside, it is pure, unadulterated bliss. Imagine soaking in the steaming water under a vast, unpolluted night sky, a bottle of chilled fizz in hand, completely undisturbed. It is the ultimate antidote to post-wedding blues and the most romantic space imaginable to toast to the next big chapter of your lives together.
For a brand-new, bespoke suite of this high calibre with a completely private hot tub, you’d easily expect to pay double. At just £220-£240 per night (for stays up until Sept 26) including cooked breakfasts, it is an absolute bargain for the sheer standard of luxury on offer. One guest captured it perfectly:
“Our fourth visit to Green Grove... This time we stayed in the Samuel Suite—a real touch of luxury! Immaculate accommodation finished to a high spec.”
‘A Massive Yorkshire Welcome' and the Legendary Aga Breakfast
At the heart of any meaningful, experience-led getaway are the people who host you. Run by the effortlessly warm and wonderful duo Zoe and Keith, Green Grove is a masterclass in legendary Northern hospitality. From the moment you cross the threshold of this beautiful 160-year-old stone house, you aren’t just check-ins—you are treated like old friends who have finally come home.
Zoe and Keith are the quintessential "mine hosts," striking that perfect, delicate balance of being entirely attentive to your every need while giving you total, blissful privacy to enjoy your pre or post wedding chill. Another recent review captures it perfectly:
“Everything was fantastic... most of all the hosts were everything you would want from a 5 break away. We did not want for anything and Zoe and Keith went way beyond anything we expected.”
And oh, the breakfast! Cooked to absolute perfection on the house Aga, Keith prides himself on preparing your morning feast exactly how you like it. Featuring premium, locally sourced ingredients from nearby Skipton butchers (including local black pudding that guests openly rave about as the best they've ever tasted), it is a legendary morning ritual. It’s the kind of feast that demands you take your time, sip your coffee, and gaze out over the serene fields from the breakfast room or your private patio, weather permitting.
Fairytales and Wizarding Wonders: The Malham Cove Circular Walk
For couples and walkers who find deep connection in nature, Green Grove sits at the absolute gateway to some of the most dramatic, magical geology in the UK. Pull on your walking boots and head to nearby Malham Cove for a circular walk steeped in local folklore
The Challenge of the 410 Steps
From the lush valley floor, prepare your lungs for the 410 stone steps that climb up the face of the cliff. Reaching the summit together is an unforgettable, breathtaking experience that rewards you with views that stretch for miles.
The Iconic Limestone Causeway
At the top, you’ll step onto the world-famous limestone pavement, a vast, otherworldly causeway of deeply eroded stone instantly recognizable to Harry Potter fans as the desolate, beautiful landscape where Harry and Hermione camped in The Deathly Hallows.
Janet’s Foss & The Fairy Queen Cave
Your trail winds through enchanted woodland where the air is thick with the sweet scent of wild garlic, bringing you first to a magical waterfall pooling into a crystalline basin. This is the legendary home of Jennet, the Queen of the Fairies and it’s the premier spot for a bracing wild swim. Nearby, look out for the mystical money wishing trees, their ancient fallen trunks hammered with thousands of shiny coins left by hopeful travellers.
Market Towns and Michelin Magic: Indie Shops & Foodie Hotspots
When you aren't boots-on-the-ground in the fells, Green Grove positions you perfectly to explore the Dales' most sophisticated independent corners. Because you are situated just off the A65 right between Settle and Skipton (and within easy reach of Ingleton and Kirkby Lonsdale), you have the best of the region at your fingertips. For design-loving honeymooners, a stop at Car & Kitchen in Settle is non-negotiable for beautifully curated lifestyle pieces, contemporary clothing, and gorgeous homeware.
The local culinary scene is having a spectacular renaissance, making it a dream destination for food-loving couples:
Exquisite Shared Small Plates at Nettle, Settle
Head to Nettle on the historic Market Place in Settle. Owned by an exceptionally talented photographer-and-executive chef husband and wife duo, this neighbourhood gem is an absolute haven for stunning, hyper-seasonal small plates and creative cocktails. The open kitchen treats premium local produce with immense love, serving up flavours that taste every bit as good as they look.
Fine Dining at Eight at Gazegill by Doug Crampton
For a showstopping, celebratory dinner to cure any hint of the post-wedding blues, book well ahead for Eight at Gazegill. Located just a short drive away on an organic farm, this award-winning, Michelin-listed restaurant features the phenomenal chef Doug Crampton at the helm. Serving up field-to-fork magic, the restaurant is set to become the UK's first fully off-grid dining space, utilising heritage meats and ingredients grown or foraged right on the land.
Boxing Hares & Wandering Grouse: Reconnect, Unwind, or Give Back
Whether you are seeking a quiet, romantic sanctuary to process the whirlwind of your own wedding day, or want to hand over a beautifully wrapped weekend away to your parents as a monumental "thank you for helping us get down the aisle," Green Grove is a balm for the soul.
It is a place entirely enveloped by the peace of the countryside. If you sit quietly on your private terrace with a morning coffee or an evening glass of wine, you are likely to spot a grouse or pheasant wandering past the garden, a woodpecker in the trees, wild deer on the horizon, or, if you are truly lucky you might spot a pair of boxing hares or even a lucky moon gazing hare in the open fields.
Bring your walking boots, bring your appetites, and expect a glorious, gold-standard Yorkshire welcome that you will be talking about for years to come. Now that the secret is out, skip the big booking corporations, go straight to their website to ensure this incredible independent business gets full payment, and secure your slice of paradise!
Plan Your Unforgettable Yorkshire Dales Escape Direct
The Location: Green Grove Country House, Bell Busk, Malhamdale, North Yorkshire, BD23 4DU. (Conveniently located just off the A65, halfway between Skipton and Settle).
The Suite: The brand-new Samuel Suite (Private lounge, bedroom with Ambassador bed, luxury ensuite, private terrace, and completely exclusive hot tub).
The Price: From £220 per night, including a full, bespoke Aga-cooked breakfast.
Book Direct For Best Rates: Head straight to the official website at www.bedandbreakfastmalhamdale.co.uk to book with Zoe and Keith.
Editor's Note: This is a naturally curated editorial feature showcasing our favourite independent businesses.
This is not a sponsored or paid post.
Supplier Spotlight: With Hayley from Ink & Barn
Hey lovely! Grab a cuppa, get comfy, and settle in for our latest Supplier Spotlight. This is our go-to space where we interview the nation's favourite wedding suppliers to get you all the best styling tips, hacks, and insider advice for your big day.
In the hot seat today is the wonderful Hayley Mason from Ink & Barn. I’ve actually seen Hayley's beautiful work first-hand and immediately knew I wanted to get her in for a Q&A to talk all about her bespoke wedding stationery studio
Katie, Editor
Meet Ink & Barn
Q: Katie: To kick things off, give us the quick headlines so our readers know exactly who you are and the magic you create!
A: Hayley: I’m Hayley Mason, the face behind Ink & Barn. I create bespoke wedding stationery that brings your unique wedding vision to life!
Hayley Mason the gorgeous lady behind Ink & Barn wedding stationery
Q: Katie: Where are you based, how far do you love to travel, and what are your favourite kinds of spaces to work with?
A: Hayley: I’m based in West Yorkshire, where I run my wedding stationery studio from my home. From here, I work with couples all across the UK, from local celebrations right through to destination weddings!
My approach is very relaxed and down-to-earth, I like things to feel easy, personal, and enjoyable from start to finish. I’ve always believed that wedding stationery should feel exciting, not overwhelming, so I aim to make the whole process as smooth and stress-free as possible.
I’ve been lucky enough to work with a wide variety of beautiful venues, and I honestly find it hard to pick favourites. I love how each space has its own personality — whether that’s a laid-back countryside setting, a modern industrial space, or something completely unique — they all bring something different to the design process, which I really enjoy.
Behind the Designs
Q: Katie: Let’s start right at the beginning! How did you find your way into the wedding world, and what was that exact moment you realised this was your calling?
A: Hayley: I started my business in 2023 after designing and styling all of my own wedding stationery for my big day. What began as a personal project quickly turned into something much bigger — I completely fell in love with the process and realised I’d found something I genuinely wanted to do long-term.
After receiving such positive feedback from friends, family, and others who saw my work, I decided to take the leap and turn it into a business. It felt like a natural next step, and I’ve never looked back.
Since then, I’ve been building Ink & Barn alongside my love for creating thoughtful, beautifully designed stationery. I truly enjoy every part of it — from those first rough ideas through to the finished pieces couples receive for their wedding day.
Q: Katie: Every business has its own distinct personality. What is the core philosophy, style, and value system that defines your work today?
A: Hayley: The core philosophy behind my work is to make the entire process feel calm, easy, and completely stress-free for my couples. I know how overwhelming wedding planning can be, so my aim is always to keep things simple, supportive, and enjoyable from start to finish.
I really focus on listening — understanding exactly what each couple wants and bringing that vision to life in a way that feels true to them. I’m always happy to offer guidance and suggestions where needed, but I never take over the creative direction. It’s important to me that every design feels personal and reflective of each couple’s style.
Good communication, a relaxed approach, and a high standard of customer service are at the heart of what I do. I also place a strong emphasis on quality, using carefully selected materials to ensure every piece feels as special as the occasion itself. Above all, I want my couples to feel looked after, understood, and confident that their stationery is in safe hands.
“If I could predict the next big thing, I’d say it’s weddings that fully embrace personality over perfection.”
Q: Katie: Let’s talk about your ‘dream couple’. Describe the people that make you instantly say, "Yes, I absolutely need to work with them!"
A: Hayley: My dream couples are those who really want their personality to shine through in their stationery and overall wedding styling. I absolutely love working with couples who aren’t afraid to make things personal — whether that’s including their pets in their signage, building a strong and intentional colour palette, or weaving in unique interests and details that make their day feel completely their own. I’ve even worked on more creative, themed ideas too, like a gaming-inspired wedding, which was such a fun project to bring to life!
That said, I genuinely love working with all kinds of couples. I’m very versatile in my approach and enjoy adapting my style to suit each individual brief. Whether someone comes to me with a very clear vision or needs a bit more guidance, I’m always happy to help bring their ideas together in a way that feels cohesive, personal, and true to them.
Trends & Expert Secrets
Q: Katie: What is the most unique, unconventional, or wonderfully memorable wedding setup you’ve ever been a part of?
A: Hayley: One of the most memorable weddings I’ve worked on was a beautifully bold, festival-style celebration that was completely centred around bright colours and personality. It was such a fun brief — there wasn’t a colour I couldn’t use, and the whole day was a real celebration of creativity and individuality.
The couple wanted something vibrant, relaxed, and full of life, and that energy ran through everything. It was packed with their friends, their dogs, and just a really laid-back, joyful atmosphere that was very much “run on vibes” in the best possible way. It’s weddings like that which I absolutely love being part of — where there are no strict rules, just personality, colour, and fun woven into every detail.
Q: Katie: The wedding world is always evolving. What exciting new patterns, directions, or details are you noticing right now in your brilliant corner of the industry?
A: Hayley: The wedding world is definitely leaning much more into personality-led, highly customised celebrations, which I absolutely love seeing. Couples are moving away from overly traditional or “one style fits all” designs and instead really focusing on making their day feel completely reflective of them.
I’m seeing a big rise in bold, intentional colour palettes, along with couples wanting to incorporate really personal details into their stationery — whether that’s pets, shared interests, or meaningful references that tell their story.
There’s also much more emphasis on the full guest experience now. Stationery is no longer just about invitations; it’s becoming part of the overall atmosphere of the day, from welcome signs and on-the-day details through to cohesive design elements that carry through the entire wedding. Overall, couples want weddings that feel fun, relaxed, and full of personality.
Q: Katie: If you could predict the 'next big thing' or share one thing you’d love to see more UK couples embrace, what would it be?
A: Hayley: I’d love to see more couples ditching the pressure of “what a wedding should look like” and instead going all-in on colour, creativity, and personal storytelling. The weddings that stand out most are always the ones that feel fun, relaxed, and completely individual — and I think that’s exactly where things are heading.
Q: Katie: For couples currently planning their wedding, what insider secret or piece of advice would you give them from your area of expertise?
A: Hayley: An insider tip I always share is to think of your stationery as part of the full guest experience, not just an information tool. It’s often the first glimpse guests get of your wedding, so it sets the tone for everything that follows. When you treat it as part of your overall styling rather than an afterthought, it completely elevates the feel of the day.
The Wedding Journey & Meaning
Q: Katie: When a couple books you, what does that journey look like from start to finish? How do you make sure they feel completely looked after?
A: Hayley: When a couple gets in touch, it usually starts with an enquiry form, message, or email where they share a little about their wedding day. From there, we’ll have a relaxed chat about their ideas, style, and overall vision — including colour palettes, design direction, cardstock options, and any materials or finishes they’re drawn to. This is really the stage where I get to understand their personality as a couple and how we can bring that into their stationery.
Once we’ve agreed on the direction, they can hand over the creative side to me. I take care of the design process and create proofs for them to review, making sure everything feels exactly right before anything goes to print. Any feedback or adjustments are always welcome at this stage, and I work closely with them to refine everything until they’re completely happy.
Once approved, I move everything into production and print their stationery with care and attention to detail. For local couples, I also offer a hand delivery service, which adds a lovely personal finishing touch! Throughout the whole process, my focus is on keeping things easy, clear, and stress-free, so couples feel fully supported and confident from start to finish.
Q: Katie: We are seeing a gorgeous shift away from 'perfect-for-Instagram' weddings toward deeply meaningful days. What is one old-school wedding tradition or rule you are secretly glad modern couples are ditching?
A: Hayley: One tradition I really love seeing more couples embrace is opening up the speeches beyond the traditional format. I’m a big fan of hearing from the bride, and I also love when the mother of the bride or groom gets the chance to speak, as well as bridesmaids or maids of honour.
It brings such a personal, emotional, and often really fun energy to the day. These moments tend to feel more relaxed and genuine, and they give space for different voices and relationships to be celebrated — not just the traditional lineup. It’s a lovely shift towards making the day feel more inclusive and reflective of the people who matter most.
Q: Katie: When the wedding magic is done and you’re finally off-the-clock, where can we usually find you and how do you like to unwind?
A: Hayley: When I’m not working on weddings, you’ll usually find me spending time with my daughter and my dog — they definitely keep life busy in the best way!
I love simple, everyday moments like finding a good coffee spot, getting outside for walks, or fitting in some exercise. I also really value time with family and friends, whether that’s exploring somewhere new, having a relaxed day out, or just enjoying a bit of downtime together. For me, it’s all about balance — enjoying the little things and making time for fun in between the busy parts of life.
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Where to find Ink & Barn:
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Supplier Spotlight: Loved By Lucy Designs
Grab a cuppa, get comfy, and settle in for our latest Supplier Spotlight. This is our go-to space where we interview the nation's favourite wedding suppliers to get you all the best styling tips, hacks, and insider advice for your big day.
In the hot seat today is the wonderful Rachael Lucy from Loved By Lucy Designs, talking all about her luxury wedding signage business.
Katie, Editor
Rachael Lucy - owner and artist behind ‘Loved By Lucy Designs, a national wedding business specialising in personal hand-painted mirrors and bespoke signage.
Katie: To kick things off, give us the quick headlines so our readers know exactly who you are and the magic you create!
Rachael: I’m Rachael Lucy, the owner and artist behind Loved By Lucy Designs, a luxury wedding signage business specialising in hand-painted mirrors, bespoke signage, and statement wedding details.
Every piece is individually painted by hand and designed to feel personal, romantic, and completely unique to each couple’s day. From floral welcome mirrors to seating plans and keepsake pieces, I create designs that feel just as special after the wedding as they did on the day itself.
Katie: Where are you based, how far do you love to travel, and how do couples get their hands on your gorgeous work?
Rachael: I’m based in Whitley Bay—the North East of England, aka Geordie land! I do all my signs and design from my art studio at home. Because of the nature of my work, I either ship out my couples' signage, or I get lots of brides travelling from all over the country to pick up their mirrors. They often make a whole weekend of it while they’re here!
Katie: Let’s start right at the beginning! How did you find your way into the wedding world, and what was that exact moment you realised this was your calling?
Rachael: I actually started everything whilst on maternity leave with my first child in 2018. I was experiencing postnatal depression, and I found that a powerful way to help myself was by expressing creativity. I was getting married myself that year, so I decided to buy some calligraphy books and give it all a go! And the rest is history.
I do have a degree in Product Design from Leeds Uni, but honestly, it may as well have just been a degree in socialising! I’ve always been “arty,” it just took me a little while into adulthood to find my true path.
Katie: Every business has its own distinct personality. What is the core philosophy, style, and value system that defines your work today?
Rachael: I just love to give a great, relaxed experience to my brides. We chat informally on Insta DMs, I let them know a clear timeline of when I’ll need their info, and then I update them every single step of the way with photos. Their reactions are the exact reason why I do this!
My standards are super high when it comes to my brides loving a piece I’ve created. It is absolutely no effort for me to tweak, add, or slightly change something to make the creation perfect for them. I’ve had brides say the final pieces were better than they could’ve ever imagined, that nothing was too much trouble, and that they genuinely enjoyed the design process.
The idea of reusing wedding signage after the wedding has been a massive shift—hanging a stunning hand-painted mirror in your home after the big day is such a vibe!
Katie: Let’s talk about your ‘dream couple’. Describe the people that make you instantly say, "Yes, I absolutely need to work with them!"
Rachael: My dream couples are the ones who are incredibly passionate about the work I do and are totally open to trusting my artistic vision. That trust in the process only comes with years of experience and proof that you produce something they know they’re going to love.
I also adore brides who have a wild vision and want me to bring something unexpected to life! When I get to do this, it results in some of my absolute business highlights—like painting couples' cats onto their wedding mirrors!
Katie: The wedding world is always evolving. What exciting new patterns, directions, or details are you noticing right now in your brilliant corner of the industry?
Rachael: Hand-painted florals have been massive over the last year, specifically customised to match the couple’s actual wedding flowers. Mirror signage, hand-painted champagne flutes, and painted perfume bottles are also huge.
But the biggest game-changer? The floral cat mirrors! I paint couples' pet cats popping up at the bottom of their welcome mirror so they feel their beloved pet is part of their big day.
Generally, the idea of reusing wedding signage after the wedding has been a massive shift. Hanging your custom wedding mirror in your home afterwards is a major vibe.
Katie: If you could predict the 'next big thing' or share one thing you’d love to see more UK couples embrace, what would it be?
Rachael: Just less tradition and more fun! I want to see more personality. Couples shouldn't be scared of making the day completely, unapologetically their own. Think outside the box and just go for it!
Katie: For couples currently planning their wedding, what insider secret or piece of advice would you give them from your area of expertise?
Rachael: Don’t underestimate the impact of personalised details. Your signage is often one of the very first things guests see when they arrive at your venue, and it instantly sets the aesthetic and tone for the entire day.
Katie: When a couple books you, what does that journey look like from start to finish? How do you make sure they feel completely looked after?
Rachael: My process is designed to feel really relaxed and collaborative from the very beginning. Once booked in, couples secure their date. Then, closer to the wedding, we go through all of the finer details together—florals, colour palettes, inspiration images, and the overall vibe they want to create.
I guide them through design choices while still making sure the finished piece feels deeply personal to them. Throughout the process, I’m always available for questions and updates because I know wedding planning can feel overwhelming at times. The goal is always for couples to feel excited, inspired, and confident that their signage is being created with genuine care and attention.
Katie: We are seeing a gorgeous shift away from 'perfect-for-Instagram' weddings toward deeply meaningful days. What is one old-school wedding tradition or rule you are secretly glad modern couples are ditching?
Rachael: I love when the bride gives the bridesmaids free rein on their dresses! Just giving them a colour palette and letting them pick a style they feel comfortable and beautiful in is wonderful.
Katie: When the wedding magic is done and you’re finally off-the-clock, where can we usually find you and how do you like to unwind?
Rachael: Usually with a coffee in hand (a skinny caramel latte!) and paint somewhere nearby! My work and creativity naturally overlap, so I’m always finding inspiration in interiors, florals, Pinterest, and little everyday details.
Outside of work, I love slower moments: walks along the coast in Whitley Bay, constantly looking out for the dolphins (I’ve seen them 3 times so far!), cosy evenings with a glass of blush rosé, and spending time with my family and friends.
Where to find Loved By Lucy Designs:
Want Rachael to bring your wedding signage visions to life? Check out her stunning portfolio and get in touch below:
Website:lovedbylucydesigns.co.uk
Instagram, TikTok & Facebook: @lovedbylucydesigns
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Meet the Wedding Team: Bashall Barn
Bashall Eaves, Clitheroe, Lancashire, BB7 3LQ
Get to know the teams behind the dream weddings and find out all of their best wedding secrets!
Isabelle - Bashall Barn, Clitheroe, Lancashire
Capacities & Spaces
Q What are your maximum guest numbers for the ceremony and the wedding breakfast?
A 130 during the day, 250 during the evening
Q Do you offer both indoor and outdoor ceremony spaces?
A Yes, we’re lucky to have three gorgeous ceremony spaces, two outdoor options and one indoor option.
Q Do you have on-site accommodation?
A We can sleep up to 32 guests throughout 11 rooms, not including our 2 wedding suites.
Q Dog friendly?
A Yes we are.
Venue Highlights
Q What is the one feature of your venue that couples always fall in love with?
A Without a doubt, it’s the stunning views from the indoor ceremony space.
The Pro Tips
Q What is your top piece of advice for couples planning their wedding?
A It’ll be stressful planning a wedding. The worst thing you can say to your partner is 'I don’t care'. I hear it far too often with my couples, and the reaction almost always creates tension. Most people don’t actually mean they don’t care — they just don’t care about every single detail. If your partner says this, ask them for 3 things they do care about, and let those be the areas they make the main decisions on instead of forcing them to choose a centrepiece they probably wouldn’t notice was there or not. A wedding is supposed to bring you together. Don’t let different interests pull you apart.
Q What is the most 'genius' wedding planning move or cost-saver you’ve seen a couple pull off?
A A brides dress from vinted for £20 that looked £2000! Always worth looking to see if your dream dress is in need of a second life!
Q If a couple has an entertainment budget, where in your opinion is it best spent for maximum impact?
A For me it would be live music. Whether that's a band, singer or a saxophonist, they can really get the party going and who doesn't love live music?!
Style & Trends
Q Best aisle entrance song?
A RuthAnne - The Vow
Q Best aisle exit song?
A Natalie Cole - This will be an everlasting love
Q Favourite colour scheme?
A Anything pastel- blues, butter yellow and pinks especially
Q Favourite wedding cake flavour?
A For me? Always, always, always a cake of cheese!
Q What favours do guests actually keep?
A Winning scratch cards or hand drawn portraits
Traditions
Q One 'Old' tradition you still love.
A Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue.
Q One 'New' tradition you’re currently obsessed with?
A Having a 'last dance' just the two of you.
The Ceremony
Q Everyone working on the wedding floor loves a Celebrant Led wedding, why do you love them?
A For me, it feels more personal and more about the love between the two. Relaxed, not worrying about saying the wrong thing, but saying how you really feel. Not only that but your guests can drink throughout the ceremony too!
Click the link to get in touch with the Bashall Barn Team and arrange your viewing.
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Katie x
Meet the Wedding Team: Horwood House Hotel
Horwood House hotel, Little Horwood, MK17 0PH
Get to know The team behind the dream and Find out all of their wedding insider secrets!
The Horwood House Wedding Team
Maisie McCusker-Boon – Senior Wedding Coordinator
Ellie Clark – Weddings & Special Events Executive
Laura Brookes – Weddings & Special Events Executive
Maisie Tegg – Senior Weddings & Banqueting Supervisor
Capacities & Spaces
Q What are your maximum guest numbers for the ceremony and the wedding breakfast?
A We can host up to 90 guests in our stunning Manor Lounge for more intimate celebrations, while our larger spaces can accommodate up to 180 guests for a wedding breakfast and 250 guests for evening receptions. For larger ceremonies, our Cook Suite can host up to 220 guests, making it perfect for bigger celebrations without compromising on atmosphere or style.
Q Do you offer both indoor and outdoor ceremony spaces?
A Absolutely. We’re lucky to have several beautiful outdoor ceremony locations, including our romantic pagoda, ancient oak tree, lily pond and iconic manor steps. Indoors, couples can choose from the elegant Manor Lounge, Eyre Suite or Cook Suite depending on the style and size of their day.
Q Do you have on-site accommodation?
A We have 150 bedrooms on site, including three stunning Manor Suites located within the manor house itself - perfect for getting ready on the morning of the wedding or extending the celebrations into a relaxing overnight stay.
Q Dog friendly?
A Yes, we love welcoming four-legged guests! Dogs are welcome to join ceremonies and even the wedding breakfast, and we also offer a dog-friendly wedding breakfast menu, so no one misses out on the celebrations.
Venue Highlights
Q What is the one feature of your venue that couples always fall in love with?
A Without a doubt, it’s the grounds and the beautiful manor house backdrop. Every corner of the venue offers incredible photo opportunities, from sweeping gardens to timeless architecture, creating memories couples can treasure forever.
The Pro Tips
Q What is your top piece of advice for couples planning their wedding?
A Don’t stress over the small details. Your guests will happily arrange their own accommodation and transport - focus on the bigger picture and enjoy the planning process. Your wedding day goes by so quickly, so it’s important to soak up every moment.
Q What is the most 'genius' wedding planning move or cost-saver you’ve seen a couple pull off?
A Repurposing aisle décor as centrepieces for the wedding breakfast is such a smart idea. It ensures your florals and styling work twice as hard throughout the day while also helping couples make the most of their budget.
Q If a couple has an entertainment budget, where in your opinion is it best spent for maximum impact?
A We absolutely love singing waiters. They’re such a fun surprise during the wedding breakfast and instantly bring energy into the room, setting the tone perfectly for the evening celebrations ahead.
Style & Trends
Q Best aisle entrance song?
A At Last by Etta James - timeless, romantic and guaranteed to create an unforgettable aisle moment.
Q Best aisle exit song?
A It has to be Signed, Sealed, Delivered I'm Yours - such a feel-good classic that gets everyone smiling the moment the ceremony ends.
Q Favourite colour scheme?
A We’re loving bright pinks and oranges at the moment. The combination adds a bold pop of colour while still feeling elegant, modern and effortlessly stylish.
Q Favourite wedding cake flavour?
A The tiramisu “cake” trend is definitely one of our favourites right now. Whether presented traditionally or as a dramatic tiramisu tower, it feels contemporary, interactive and always creates a real wow moment for guests.
Q What favours do guests actually keep?
A Personalised portraits are such a special touch. Having a live artist at your wedding gives guests a meaningful keepsake they’ll genuinely want to display at home - rather than something that ends up forgotten in a drawer.
Traditions
Q One 'Old' tradition you still love.
A Not seeing each other on the morning of the ceremony. It really builds the anticipation and makes that aisle moment even more emotional.
Q One 'New' tradition you’re currently obsessed with?
A Bridesmaids wearing different colours or tones. It feels modern, stylish and allows everyone’s personality to shine through while still looking beautifully cohesive.
The Ceremony
Q Everyone working on the wedding floor loves a Celebrant Led wedding, why do you love them?
A We love how personal celebrant-led weddings can be. They give couples complete flexibility to make the ceremony truly their own, whether that’s incorporating hand-tying rituals, beer boys or other fun, meaningful touches. No two ceremonies ever feel the same, and that’s what makes them so special.
Click the link to find out more about Horwood House https://www.horwoodhouse.co.uk/weddings.html
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Editors note: These aren't paid-for features or affiliate links. I choose to spotlight these brilliant businesses to champion the wonderful, hardworking wedding teams who embrace the freedom of celebrant-led ceremonies, ensuring every couple's day is completely flawless.
Katie x