Newly Engaged? | Your Ultimate Wedding Planning Guide
You have done it. You said yes. You are officially engaged! 💍
You’ve admired the ring from every possible angle, cried happy tears, told your mum, and proposed to your bride squad. But once the initial champagne bubbles settle, a sudden realisation usually hits: you actually have to plan a wedding. Eek!
Your Google search history is suddenly a chaotic mix of wedding checklists 2026, average wedding cost UK, and the eternal question of whether you can politely ask for cash instead of a toaster. Pinterest and Instagram are brilliant at selling the dream, but they are not always great at telling you where to start.
Take a deep breath. Whether you are dreaming of a grand stately home or a quiet forest elopement, you are in safe hands here. Here at Celebrant Led we know all the industry secrets, the hidden costs, the logistical hurdles, and we’re sharing them all with you.
Here are the essential first steps to take you from "Newly Engaged" to "Just Married."
The Unsexy Part | Setting Your Wedding Budget
This is the foundation of everything else. You need to sit down with your partner and have the money talk. Do this when you are both well fed and relaxed, preferably on neutral ground where there is no third party interference.
The biggest cause of wedding stress is a mismatch in expectations. One of you might be envisioning a DIY village hall bash while the other is dreaming of a seven course tasting menu for 200 guests. Be honest about what you can save, what family might be contributing, and what you are comfortable spending. Once that number is set, try your best to stick to it.
The GUESSTIMATE | Know Your Wedding Numbers
You cannot book a venue without a rough headcount. Write a draft list immediately. Knowing your numbers prevents the heartbreak of falling in love with a venue that is simply too small, or blowing your entire budget on a room that will feel empty.
The A-List: Your must haves (Parents, siblings, best friends).
The B-List: Close friends and extended family.
The Evening List: Colleagues and wider social circles.
Define Your Vibe
When you imagine your wedding, what does it feel like?
Formal stately home, industrial and quirky, garden party, boho festival tipi, rustic barn, luxury hotel?
Don’t worry about what is trending and what your friends are doing.
Think about what fits your personalities, your guest list and your budget.
Setting the Date
Think about the season, the colours and the light. Do you want the blue bells and snowdrops of Spring, the cherry blossom of early Summer, or the rich, russet tones of Autumn, or the Winter evergreens and berries?
If you are looking for a bargain, off peak days (Monday to Thursday) and off peak months (October to March) can save you thousands. Weekday weddings are becoming the new norm, with only 50% of UK weddings happening on a Saturday. If people love you, they will be there!
Main Character Energy | The Ceremony Vibe
Most couples spend 90% of their time planning the party and only 10% on the ceremony. However, the ceremony is the whole point. It sets the tone for the entire day.
Ask yourselves who should have the main character energy. Is it a religious scripture? Is it the official government process? Or is it You Two? A celebrant led wedding puts your love story front and centre. It is the ultimate way to reclaim your wedding day with intention and connection.
The "Safety Net" | Wedding Insurance
It is cheap to cover your big day and it is essential. During my time as a wedding manager, I saw far too many broken limbs and hen party mishaps. One bride even had to hobble down the aisle after tripping over a toy dinosaur!
Beyond personal accidents, insurance protects you if a venue or supplier goes into administration. In today’s economic climate, it is a small price to pay for peace of mind.
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Wedding Dress Shopping Q&A with Eleanor of Sixpenny Bridal.
Wedding Dress Shopping Q&A with Eleanor from Sixpenny Bridal, Clitheroe.
Eleanor, owner of Sixpenny Bridal, Clitheroe
I caught up with the lovely Eleanor, owner of the gorgeous Sixpenny Bridal in Clitheroe, to talk lace, logistics, and everything you’re too polite to ask about wedding dress shopping!
Sixpenny Bridal
The Story
Katie: “I’m a sucker for ‘The Love Story.’ I’d love to hear how you fell in love with the idea of running your bridal shop in the Ribble Valley. Take me back to the start: what was the moment you decided to open Sixpenny Bridal right here in Clitheroe? Was it a long-held dream?”
Eleanor: “I actually started dreaming about opening my own bridal boutique years ago - but with everything timing is important! In 2024 things finally worked out and we settled in gorgeous Clitheroe which is just the perfect place for all things weddings! I think really, I’ve always been passionate about weddings (I’ve even been a bridesmaid 7 times!) and I knew that starting my own business I wanted to be able to pour my heart and soul into something. Bridal for me really is that. Every moment I put into Sixpenny is a moment of joy and it really genuinely makes me so happy to help brides with this exciting (albeit sometimes overwhelming) part of their life!”
Wedding Dress Shopping
Katie: “I always tell my couples that their ceremony should feel like them. How do you make sure the appointment feels the same way? For a bride who might be feeling a bit nervous or self-conscious, what’s the ‘Sixpenny Vibe’ when she walks through your door?”
Eleanor: “I absolutely believe the same! Each bride that steps through the door is their own unique person and not just ‘another bride’ to me. I love hearing the engagement and proposal stories and finding out how I can support their own individual needs. Brides get a pre-call from me so that I can see how they’re doing, and I try to put any nerves at ease before you even step through the door - we keep things really relaxed and welcoming so you can completely be yourself and settle into things. I often say we just take it one dress at a time! It should be enjoyable rather than daunting and I’m here to help make it a positive experience for you!
Bridal appointment at Sixpenny Bridal, Clitheroe
The Sixpenny Bridal Boutique Experience
Katie: “We’ve all seen the scary bridal shows on TV! But I know you do things very differently. Is it strictly appointment-only so the bride has the whole boutique to herself? Talk us through that personal experience.”
Eleanor: “Yes! So don’t get me wrong, these shows can be so fun to watch! But it’s worth remembering they are often heavily edited and they’re not representative of your own experience. I think it’s one of the best things about the Sixpenny experience that you get the whole boutique to yourself - it’s completely private and means you can really make yourself at home. All the dresses are available to you, there’s no risk of one being in with another bride, and it’s just you and your guests, so you get complete 1-2-1 focus. We also keep our collection quite small compared to some boutiques - this prevents being overwhelmed whilst still maintaining a great range so you can try on lots of different styles without being fatigued. I have heard from brides many times how surprised they are that actually you don’t need 200 dresses to find the perfect one!
The Timeline: Wedding Dress Shopping and Alterations
Katie: “For the super-organised (and the last-minute!) brides, what is the ‘perfect timeline’ for coming to see you, saying yes to the dress, and getting those fittings booked?”
Eleanor: “There is no ‘perfect timeline’ really - it’s whatever feels best for you! I know some brides like to get in early and organised, so start looking around 18 months before the wedding. But some brides have been on a quick turnaround and are looking much closer! To ensure you have all the options open to you I would say 9-12 months is an ideal spot, with it taking up to 6 months for a made-to-order dress to arrive, 2 months for alterations and then some buffer time for decision making etc! But if you don’t have that much time do not worry! We can work with our designers on quick ship or rush order options (just be aware there may be a charge for this) or alternatively we can find you a dress from our samples that you can take away the same day! I’m here to minimise any worrying or stress for you so anything on timelines please just reach out!”
What to Wear for the Bridal Appointment?
Katie: “Okay, let’s be real for a second: what on earth should a bride-to-be wear to the appointment? Are we talking full Spanx and strapless bras, or can they just turn up in their usual bra and comfy pants?”
Eleanor: “Again, it’s whatever you feel comfortable in! You definitely do not need to go out and buy anything new, and most brides whip that bra straight off to be honest as most of the dresses have built in cups! But if you know you’ll feel your best in Spanx or similar then of course go ahead. Same with comfies! It really is whatever you like. It’s also totally OK if it’s ’that time of the month’ - this is a space for you to feel your most comfortable, we’ve popped a bride into a dressing gown so she could have a break to breastfeed before too!
The Budget: What Does the Average Wedding Dress Cost?
Katie: “Weddings are an investment. Can you give us a rough idea of the price range at Sixpenny Bridal? And do you have any options for brides who might need to spread the cost?”
Eleanor: “We have dresses that range from £900 - £2700, with majority of the dresses being under that £2000 mark. It’s definitely an investment purchase, and what I would say is that you’ll notice straight away that these dresses are very different to buying from a high street store. They are often hand stitched, with high quality materials (and a lot of it!). I do believe that it really is worth spending a chunk of time and budget on your dress as you want to feel your best on the day, and you’ll be looking back at these photos for years to come! When a bride puts her dress on and lights up with confidence it’s absolutely priceless.”
Bringing the Bride Squad
Katie: “As a celebrant, I love a big wedding party, but I know dress shopping is an intimate experience. Can a bride bring her whole ‘I Do Crew,’ or do you find it’s better with a smaller, supportive gang?”
Eleanor: “I find the best appointments are the ones with a smaller entourage, sometimes even just mum or sister! Often the more people you bring, the more conflicting opinions there are and it can be hard to hear your own thoughts. It’s totally well meaning of course, but everyone is going to have their own favourite! It’s about remembering what you want. There is also the option of choosing your dress, then inviting a larger crew back for your collection appointment so they can be part of the experience but without the decision making. This is totally something we can do! Or it’s also super fun to keep it a surprise for the big day for some people!”
The Look of Love: What are the Wedding Dress Trends for 2026/27?
Katie “I’d love to know what’s coming next…I’m seeing so much personality in ceremonies lately. What are the big vibes for 2026 and 2027 fashion? Are we seeing a full return to big ballgowns and basque waists, or is it all about sleek, modern silhouettes?”
Eleanor: “Basque waists are definitely not going anywhere this year - they are super flattering and I think will be around for a little while longer. Lace has been big the last few years too, but we’re seeing a lot of brides move into sleeker and chic simplicity for 2026/27. But I always encourage brides to go with what feels right for them, not necessarily what’s trending. Something can look amazing on Pinterest or on a celeb and then just not suit you - and that’s totally OK!”
Versatility: Detachable Skirts and Sleeves!
Katie: “I love it when a bride surprises everyone with a look change before the reception! Are you seeing many dresses that transform, like removable sleeves or overskirts? It’s such a great way to get two looks for one.”
Eleanor: “For a lot of brides I’m seeing that comfort is key! And I think this is actually a big driver for second looks sometimes - especially if they’ve chosen a heavy dress for their ceremony. You don’t have to buy an all new dress to change up your look though - we have lots of options for that 2-in-1 look, with detachable skirts, sleeves or even a dress that has a full lace overlay and then converts into a whole new material underneath! You can also change up your headpiece or change lipstick and add some fun earrings if you’re wanting to go a bit more fun for your evening do!”
Accessories: What is on Trend for 2026 and 2027?
Katie: “Let’s talk finishing touches. What are you loving right now? Is it pearls, sparkle, or are we seeing the return of the dramatic cathedral veil?”
Eleanor: ‘My absolute favourite veil is a chapel length sparkle one, made with ivory Italian tulle. I just love how it catches the light and how it is so versatile - it goes with every dress without distracting! I do have a soft spot for pearls though and we’re getting some amazing chantilly lace options in in the new year! A veil for me is so worth it though, there is just something special and so bridal about them.”
Matching the Dress to the Lancashire Wedding Venue
Katie: “Eleanor, you and I both know we have some stunning venues around Lancashire. If I was officiating at these spots, what would you dress the bride in?”
Wennington Hall
Katie “I love a Wennington Hall Wedding; it’s got the ‘wow factor’, and I’m obsessed with the outdoor aisle. If a bride is getting married there, what dress gives that ‘Luxe Manor House’ energy? Maybe something with a bit of drama?”
Eleanor: “Ooooh I love these questions! I think for Wennington, I would love to see a bride in our Arundel dress by Dando London - so elegant but with an incredible statement train!”
Holmes Mill
Katie: “Holmes Mill Clitheroe, has the cool, industrial and edgy vibe. What would you pick for a bride getting married in the Cotton Room? I’m picturing something modern, or maybe a bit sparkly to catch those lights?”
Eleanor: “I love the cool vibe of Holmes Mill - and I definitely think you could go for a bit of sparkle here! The Tintagel dress by Dando London has that edge of sparkle that catches people by surprise and would look amazing under some of the spotlights.”
Stirk House
Katie: “Stirk HouseHotel is a majestic 17th century manor full of romance, history, and character, set in beautiful gardens and ancient woodland.
Can you suggest the perfect gown for a real-life fairytale setting?”
Eleanor: “I’d love to see a bride in our Cassidy dress from Serene by Madi Lane at Stirk House - for some reason I imagine a bride running through a garden in it! It’s a dress that makes you feel like a modern day princess whilst still remaining really light (meaning you can party in it!)”
The Tipis at Riley Green
Katie: “I adore this venue; the Tipis at Riley Green have such a lovely vibe, and the grounds are brimming with beautiful flowers. For a bride who wants a relaxed, boho vibe, what would you recommend? Something flowy and boho?”
Eleanor: “3D flower appliqués can give a real boho and natural look - and I love our Lucille dress from Maya Bella for this. We have it in a blush in the studio for something a little different, or you can order in Ivory!”
Expert Advice from Eleanor
katie: “Just a few final fun ones before we let you get back to your brides… If you could give one piece of advice to a bride before she books her appointment with you, what would it be?”
Eleanor: “It’s so much easier said than done but ‘don’t worry’ is my first piece of advice. Please do try and enjoy this special time and your experience! With that, I would also say come ready to find your dress - there’s a high chance you will find your dream dress with us but so often brides hold themselves back, let nerves or pressure to go to lots of shops get the best of them, or they end up overthinking things. If it feels right, then go for it! Take the pressure off, get excited, and if you feel great in the dress then that’s a sign to lean into the enjoyment and have your yes moment!”
The 'After' Moment: Cleaning and Storing your Wedding Dress
Katie: “And finally… what should a bride do with her dress after the wedding? I’m guessing ‘bin bag in the loft’ is not the right answer! Can you recommend a cleaning service or preservation method?”
Eleanor: “Absolutely we can help point you in the right direction for getting your dress cleaned - don’t worry about it getting dirty though, enjoy your day! You aren’t going to be able to 100% prevent a bit of mud, dance floor dirt or drink getting on your train so try not to let it bother you and we can sort it out after! What I am loving at the moment is brides re-using their dresses, so if you have time an idea is to reconfigure it into a dress you can wear on your honeymoon! If you need a bit of time to think about it then we can get it packaged for you in a proper presentation box that will keep it nice and protected. I also really want a bride to bring their mums old dress in so we can surprise her with trying it on - so if you know anyone who wants to do this please let me know - I would love to be involved!!”
Katie: “It’s always such a joy chatting with Eleanor. Her passion for empowering women and making them feel incredible is exactly why I love chatting with wedding suppliers like her. If you’re looking for a dress experience that feels natural and easy, Sixpenny Bridal is the spot. When you go for your appointment, say ‘hello’ to Eleanor from me, and take your Mum and her old dress!!”
Katie x
Celebrant Led
Ps. If you’re newly engaged and overwhelmed with wedding planning, click here and check out my insiders guide to planning a wedding.